Outdoor Spaces Archives - A Beautiful Mess https://abeautifulmess.com/category/outdoor-spaces/ Crafts, Home Décor, Recipes Sun, 21 May 2023 04:16:40 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.4.3 https://abeautifulmess.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/cropped-ABM-Favicon-60x60.jpg Outdoor Spaces Archives - A Beautiful Mess https://abeautifulmess.com/category/outdoor-spaces/ 32 32 Episode #184: Decorating the Exterior of Your House https://abeautifulmess.com/episode-184-decorating-the-exterior-of-your-house/ https://abeautifulmess.com/episode-184-decorating-the-exterior-of-your-house/#comments Mon, 22 May 2023 13:00:00 +0000 https://abeautifulmess.com/?p=111347 This week, we are talking about how to make the outside of your home look and feel as cozy as the inside of your home. Plus, we have a listener question about how to handle a contractor who isn’t doing the job right.


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Show Notes:

Painting:

Front Door: 

Windows:

  • Shutters

Porch Ideas:

  • Wraparound porch
  • Get a swing or daybed swing 
  • Put out a little table and chairs
  • Use string lights
  • Put in a fireplace
  • Add a TV

Walkway:

Landscaping:

  • See what blooms your first year
  • Do a little bit at a time

Back patio:

Backyard:

Mailbox:

  • Have it fit the personality of your home
  • Check out Emma’s mailbox magnet

Holidays:

  • Plan ahead
  • Permanent Christmas lights
  • Print out a picture of the exterior of your house and draw out your plans

Listener Question:

What are your tips, tricks, experiences, and ideas for dealing with contractor issues, especially as women? 

  • Read Elsie’s blog about Tips for Hiring a Contractor
  • Keep bothering them
  • Give yourself a pep talk afterward
  • Ask your family and friends for their opinions

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Episode 184 Transcript:

Elsie: You’re listening to The Beautiful Mess Podcast, your cozy comfort listen. This week we’re talking about how to make the outside of your home look and feel as cozy as the inside of your home. Plus, we have a listener question about how to handle a contractor who isn’t doing their job right. My favorite subject. Okay, so someone DMed me and they said, this is so cute. I can’t stop thinking about it. So at our new house in Missouri, they said that they used to live kind of next door to it or something. And that at one point in the 1990s, they saw a huge wedding hosted there in the yard. It was right after our Father of the Bride episode came out. And they just wanted to tell me and they said it was really magical. It had lights, it had tents, it had all the things and I wish I could see it. I love the idea of still throwing some kind of, it doesn’t have to be a wedding, but some kind of giant party there. Maybe a wedding, maybe something else someday, but it made my heart feel so many things.

Emma: That is so cute. That is the sweetest DM ever. You also haven’t shown the house very much so I totally believe that they did live next door cuz in order for them to be able to like, recognize it from what you have shared they must really know this house. 

Elsie: Yeah. The neighborhood, everyone kind of knows when I was walking around the neighborhood last time, I was there, Every single person that talked to me was like, so you’re moving into that house?

Emma: It’s a close-knit area. 

Elsie: Yeah. So anyway, this episode is all about decorating the exterior of your home. I am so excited to do ours. So I like the way that exterior looks, but I think it has a lot more potential that can be unlocked. And I definitely think yours as well. So Emma’s house, she’s currently doing her exteriors, like painting, renovation, and stuff. And she has a huge backyard that she’s saving for later, so I can’t wait to see what you jump into that eventually, like what you do of it. 

Emma: Yeah, so we can talk about paint because actually as we’re recording this, we were supposed to get our brick lime washed this week, but it didn’t work out because they have to have three days of no rain so that the paint can cure properly. And this week it was kind of on and off in the forecast of a little bit of rain. So we’re hoping for next week, but this time of year it rains on and off fairly frequently, so it could even be another month, who knows? But I’m very excited when it does happen because we have a mostly white, house, but then we have a little bit of brick, and so we’re gonna get that lime washed. So lime wash, it can mean a lot of different things. So for us, what we’re wanting is where you kind of see the brick a little bit. You still see that there’s red brick under there. It’s almost kind of like a cloudy look. It’s very cottage core, shabby chic, it’s kind of that kind of thing. And for us, we don’t have tons of brick. It’s not the whole house, so it’s kind of gonna be an accent. So I feel like it’s gonna be a nice juxtaposition with the white siding we have, which looks pretty plain and boring, just being honest. It’s like pretty boring. So I feel like this will give it kind of something. At the moment, it’s just like very red brick and it’s just a little too much visual contrast for my eyes, and also tell you it just doesn’t really seem to have any style. So I’m very excited for this lime washing. But again, could have happened this week, didn’t happen because of the weather. We’ll see. I’m hoping for next week. Could even be a month though. Who knows? 

Elsie: So painting brick, it’s definitely a regional thing. So where I grew up in Missouri, I think people are kind of starting to do it now a little bit more, but people used to really villainize and it’s definitely a hot and cold topic, but there’s a lot of people who think that it’s like really bad to paint a brick home.

But when I moved to Nashville, I was seeing it everywhere. Just everyone paints their brick homes here, it’s very extremely common. So that was what gave me the courage to do it for the first time. And then after that, I never turned back, I paint a brick home all the time now. On my first two houses, I painted them with conventional latex paint. In the last house that we painted, we used Roman bio paint, which is a non-toxic, environmentally friendly mineral paint. And the thing that’s cool about it is that a lot of people will say you shouldn’t paint houses because then the brick can’t breathe, and with this paint, it’s like painting brick with a layer of white brick. So it’s the same material and your house can still breathe. So it lasts longer, it’s more sustainable. The thing that’s tough about it though, is it’s harder to find a painter who wants to use that material because it’s not as common. So anyway, I will link that in the blog, if anyone’s curious. But yeah, I think that painting a house is one of the best things you can do for curb appeal, I recommend it. So the pink house is a wood house, maybe it’s wood siding, I’m not sure, and then our new home is like a clapboard house, so it’s wood. So they’re both painted already and a part of owning these houses is that you have to keep them painted and keep up with it. It’s an important part of the maintenance of owning a woodhouse. So with our pink house, we decided to do a statement color because first of all, it fits into the neighborhood. There were already a lot of houses in the neighborhood that had a little bit of color. It’s not like Charleston, but it’s definitely a lot more than any other neighborhood in our hometown. Just like houses with a little bit of color, a little bit more risk-taking is the right word, but just a little bit more of an open-minded vibe. People always ask me if the neighbors hated it. I never heard of anyone who hated it, but I’m sure someone probably didn’t like it. I don’t know because it’s pink. It’s a pink house, but it’s not the only pink house, I don’t think, is it? 

Emma: I don’t think it is. No. It’s the only one of that particular pink, but no, I can think of one other that’s like a pink house and it is the one that’s in heavy disrepair anyway. Anyway, there’s at least one other pink one that I could think of. 

Elsie: And also pink is a historic home color. It’s a more common home color from the days of old, that’s also why I wanted to do it. So anyway, I thought it was fun. It was just an opportunity because it’s very small. What do you call it? Like a bungalow-style house. So it just kind of made sense. It fit like it felt good for our new home since it is the clapboard and it’s already white, I really just can’t imagine it any other color. So I think that I’m pretty sure it that will always keep it white. But who knows? Never say never. But an opportunity for painting on the exterior is definitely the porch at the moment. The porch needs to be repainted really badly. It is around the front steps area, when you first walk up, it’s like really chipping off. So I know that’s one of our first projects that we need to do. So I found this main color called Dorian Gray, so I was thinking about using that. You know, I have my Dorian Gray thing. If I wanna do a neutral color, or I could do a little more of a fun color, I don’t know.

Emma: Yeah. Didn’t you say a lot of people told you to paint it blue, to tell the ghost to go away? 

Elsie: Okay. So it is, it’s a Southern thing that if you paint your porch ceiling blue. So when you look on Pinterest at porches, wraparound porches, and porch decorations, you’ll see lots of porches with a painted blue ceiling, and now I kind of know why. I don’t know if that’s the only reason, or if some people maybe just see it and they’re like, oh, that’s a cute color, I’ll do mine that way too. Yeah, but I first of all don’t really want a blue ceiling. But second of all, I’m not really afraid of ghosts. So if you see me painting my porch ceiling blue though, now you’ll know that something really weird happened. You’d be like, we need to send her some flowers. 

Emma: She’d be like, it was between this and an exorcism. So I’m painting it blue. 

Elsie: Yeah. Our sun porch was actually, the ceiling was painted a teal blue when we moved in. But we painted over it white just to, I don’t know, I just wanted it to be all white. I just didn’t wanna have a statement ceiling in there. Yeah. Anyway, let’s stay focused on the exterior cause that’s what this episode is about. 

Emma: Yeah. Well, alongside painting exteriors, let’s talk about another important exterior thing that you paint sometimes, front doors. 

Elsie: Okay. So the statement front door is such a fun topic, and I’m excited to talk about this. So, first of all, I love statement front doors, I’ve had them in almost all of my homes. I think on my first home we did a classic black front door. And then after that, I was like we had a pink door and then we had a blue door, and then now we have another pink door and then we had a green door. So I love the statement front door. I think it’s very fun. I just think it’s nice. But the one thing I will say is there’s this one house in our neighborhood right now where when I always try to fight, I’m like, oh, the statement door does not match the house though. You know what I mean? So you do have to blend it with what your house already is. If you’re not gonna paint the whole house, you do have to kind of accept your house for what it is and pick a color that is cohesive with that, I think. 

Emma: That’s what I think too. I will say if it’s your house and you have no HOA on your back, do whatever you want. If it makes you happy to paint it, that one teal that you really love, even though it doesn’t go with the rest of the house, that’s fine. Go for it. Yeah, to me it’s like kind of a missed opportunity when I see one that just doesn’t, because I’m like, there’s so many colors that would work and you picked the one that doesn’t really fit. So it feels like this door doesn’t belong to this house, which is fine. It’s your house, whatever. But I’m gonna go on my walk and I’m gonna judge your front door. So just know that’s happening.

Elsie: In our new house, we have a screen door, so I might paint the front door, but I feel like it won’t really be as much of a thing to look at from the outside because of the, it’s like a wood screen door, it’s like a very classic, like a southern door. I love it, I think it’s practical because it’s like mosquito land and stuff. I’m thinking about painting the inside of the front door. But yeah, I think if I wanna have like a fun statement door, I might do like our little pottery shed in the backyard. I might do a side door, I might do something else, I think.

Emma: Yeah, and we’ve had painted front doors in the past too. Probably my favorite was we had this yellow door on the first home that Tray and I lived in together. And I painted it with my friends one day and it was really fun. So currently we just have this kind of modern wood door that has frosted panels and we just got it from Lowe’s. It’s not really anything all that special, to be honest, but it looks really nice. Our door before had a huge crack in it, the door that came with the house and we just weren’t really in love with the style of it anyway. And like I said, the window was super cracked so we replaced it with that. And I’m having them, whenever they do the exterior of the house, we’re kind of matching the wood. We’re adding panels of wood under some of the windows. Almost like a planter box, but it’s not actually a planter box cuz I have no green thumb whatsoever. And I will never put plants in them because they will just die because I don’t know what I’m doing. So it’s just like a piece of wood, but visually I think it will read kind of like a planter box without flowers and it just matches the front door. Because of that, I have no plan to paint our front door ever. I just plan to keep it the wood that it is and it looks really pretty. It’s like a really nice wood and it’s been sealed so you can really see all the wood grain and it’s really pretty. 

Elsie: But yeah, just for the record, we are pro-statement door. Do pick something that likes vibes with your house, but I think it’s magical. I think it’s one of those fun moments in life like one of the things that homeowners get to do that’s really special.

Emma: Yeah. And if you’re a seasonal wreath person, which I am, then you do have to think of your front door as the backdrop for all your seasonal wreaths. So I would think that through. So make sure that it’s gonna go well with your Halloween wreath and your Christmas wreath. Maybe you don’t care, but I do. 

Elsie: That’s how I make all of my home decisions. I never make a decision without thinking of how it will look during Halloween and Christmas because it’s so important to me and I stretch them out for at least an extra month each. Okay, the other thing I love for front doors is choosing a vintage knocker, I’ve talked about this before. I chose one for my new house already. I choose one for every home, and they’re all kind of not funny, but they have a personality to them because there are vintage brass, knockers. There are so many different ones you can find. I think our first one was a pineapple and then we had a butterfly at one of our BMBs and I remember at Casey’s house I did a horseshoe and at my new house, I’m doing the bat. I’m doing a brass bat, it’s magical. It’s kind of a fun tradition that I love to do like picking the door knocker. 

Emma: Yeah, at my Harry Potter house in Florida, which we no longer own, but there is an owl brass knocker because you know, Harry Potter. 

Elsie: Okay, so for windows, first of all, do you like shutters? Are you a shutter person? 

Emma: I love shutters. We don’t have them and I don’t really want them, but I love looking at them. 

Elsie: A lot of people have asked me if I would add shutters to our new house because it kind of looks like the movie houses that I always put, that it kind of looks like both have black shutters. But I actually think our house is not meant to have shutters the size of the windows is I think it’s bigger than you think. So from what I’ve read, the only way to do shutters is to have them be like real shutters that could really close and they have proper hardware and they’re not like just a decoration, they’re a real working thing. In order to do that, they would be huge. So I just don’t think that our house needs it or wants it. So at this time, I’m no one shutters, but I do love how they look and all around our neighborhood, there are so many houses with pretty shutters and I think it’s magical.

Emma: And you feel they have to be real because you would want to use them like you would want to pull them closed sometimes. 

Elsie: I mean, you know, I love my End of the World books, so yes. But also I think it’s just sort of like an authenticity thing for like people who like old houses, it’s like you wanna do it the way it would’ve been done in that era.

Emma: Yeah, I get that. Well, up to you. 

Elsie: I could tell you it’s stupid. 

Emma: Yeah, I do. I don’t need to say it, but of note at the holiday house, the shutters on the front of the house, and on the front porch were definitely not real. They were definitely just nailed in place and I thought they looked pretty good.

Elsie: I’m just saying if I were gonna do them I would wanna make them real functioning shutters. 

Emma: Okay. Well, that’s up to you but I do think they would look pretty cool. So if the only way to do it was fake ones, I’m voting against you, but it’s your house. So obviously do whatever you want. 

Elsie: Look at it one more time in a picture, because on the front window in the center to the top, there’s an oddly shaped window and I’m just not sure how it would work, like if you just wouldn’t put the shutters on all the windows or it just kind of feels like it would be a little bit, I don’t know.

Emma: I’m thinking of it more as purely an aesthetic thing and not you’re going to use them at all. That’s so we’re probably just not thinking like we’re not on the same page because you like want to use them. So that’s very different because it’s like then they might have to be like huge or oddly shaped depending on your windows and yeah, that sounds probably a lot more expensive and potentially problematic, but I’m just thinking like cool ones that maybe have like moons carved in ’em or something. I don’t know. Or just black wines. 

Elsie: So you think I should put shutters on the front of the house? 

Emma: Yeah, I do, fake ones. 

Elsie: Next time I talk to someone about the exterior I’ll ask some questions, I’m curious now. All right, let’s talk about porches. Porches are everything to me. So I’ve already talked about this like 85 times, but I promise you it’s gonna be 85 more. At our new house, my dream is to make a porch that you can walk all the way around. A literal, all-the-way walk around the porch. What do you call it, wraparound porch and you can actually walk all the way around it, some of it will have doors, some of it won’t and some of it will be sunrooms. One of it’s gonna be like an art room, some of it will be porches. It’s so magical to me. So, yeah I love porches. In our first Nashville house, we had a sunroom and it was definitely one of the most beautiful rooms in the house. It was very photogenic and it was very fun to decorate. But since it was a three seasons room and you couldn’t use it in the winter, it was kind of a bummer some of the years. So I learned from that experience that I would rather have just like all the way a porch, just a porch as you go out there, you sit in the fresh air, or if it’s a sunroom that’s closed in with windows, I want it to be like heated and cooled and be like a part of the home. So that’s a big priority for me now. Fun things about porches, so you can do swings, you can do a little table and chairs. You can do the daybed swing. What are some of your favorite decorations for porches? 

Emma: Yeah. I love a swing. I love a daybed swing. Our porch is kind of strange in a way. It is a proper porch but it’s a lot of poured cement with a couple of bushes, like space where the tree is growing out. It’s like a bonsai tree or something, I don’t really know. And there’s not really a place to put a swing, but we used to always sit and swing with Oscar when he was a baby at our last house. So I kind of miss it, but I don’t even know if he would enjoy it anymore. Now he wants to be walking, we have his little bike out on the front porch, it’s tucked underneath the awning. And this little cozy coop car, he likes to get in that and stuff. So I don’t know if we’re gonna do a lot more to our front porch just because there isn’t really, it’s not a lot of it is covered. There’s just a small space that’s covered and it’s kind of taken up by Oscar’s car and bike right now. But we sit out there a lot right now and eat dinner, Oscar loves being outside generally. And so we’ll make dinner and take it all outside after daycare and just sit out there and eat and he’ll watch cars go by. And he likes to point out if it’s a car or a truck or whatever. One day a trash truck honked at us because he was waving and that was, I think, the most thrilling moment of his life, he was so into it. 

Elsie: Oh my gosh, how cute. Yeah. I love porches. So in the neighborhood, we’re moving in Springfield, there are a lot of porches that have string lights and I think that’s really charming. It’s not like Christmas lights, it’s all year round. When you walk around at night, there’s just a lot of porches that are lit up with string lights and so I thought that was really sweet. If you have a chance to put a fireplace on your porch, I think that’s epic. Truly a porch with a fireplace it’s epic, it’s amazing. I would love to do like a dining table porch eventually. I think that’s really exciting for like the back of the house.

Emma: What do you think about, well-designed and placing TVs on porches? What are your thoughts? 

Elsie: I am pro TV on a porch because I just think if it makes you use it more, then it’s good. And I think that there might have been a time in my life when I was snobby about TVs, but it is not now.

Emma: Yeah, I pretty much agree. We have no place for one, but I would totally put one just to watch an episode of something and eat breakfast on our porch or something. Really in the evening, in the summer it can be kind of mosquito land, so then you have to really figure out your plan for that. But during the day, in the morning, it tends to be pretty good. 

Elsie: I think it’s a good idea actually. If this space calls for it and it works, maybe it would make you use your porch more. I think that’s the most important thing because I’ve had porches that we use constantly, and I’ve had ones that we never used at all. And so I think just creating routines that make you consistently use it is really important. Especially right when you first move in. So the next part is walkways. So I think if you have a chance to update walkways, driveways, things like that, that can be a huge upgrade. Lately, it’s springtime right now, so as I’ve been driving around, I’ve seen so many people pouring driveways and I’m like, oh, good for you, it’s so cute. So my dream is to have a brick pathway, for the pathway that goes up to the house and then the pathways that sort of lead around in the back. I just think that brick pathways are so cute.

Emma: Oh yeah. A brick pathway is a very magical, very secret garden. So we have a few walkways, I guess I have two things. One is basically we have these really big, lovely lavender bushes on our back, in between how you enter our backyard and where the garage is, and last year they were not totally blooming yet, but last year they smelled amazing. We didn’t live in the house yet, but we would come to check it a lot. And yeah, they just smelled amazing, I don’t know if it’s like edible lavender or not, I’m not really sure. I’m sure I could figure that out. But I did notice last year that it had tons of bees and so I’m thinking about that this year. I’m a little unsure if we’re gonna keep them because I do think they smell awesome. But Oscar is just like, that’s a spot he’s at a lot because we go in and out of the backyard all the time because he’ll wanna play in the backyard and then we go in the front yard, and then you know, back and forth quite a bit. So I’m just a little concerned about the number of bees I saw. I don’t know if there’s something I should do for there to be less bees. I think bees are important, so I don’t really want to do anything that necessarily deters them because obviously, they’re just doing what bees do, but I don’t know, so I’m kind of thinking about that. I’m not sure what we’re gonna do this year. They’re just starting to bloom, so we’ll see. But if Oscar and I both get stung a whole bunch, I’ll be like, okay, where you’ve gotta do something.

Elsie: Maybe there are other plants or I bet our listeners will be able to give you some advice on that. That interesting. 

Emma: Yeah, because I don’t wanna do anything to kill the bees or anything like that. I’m just thinking we would move the bushes. Actually, a contractor we worked with I already mentioned, would totally take them and plant them at his house if we wanted. So I was like, okay, I already have someone, they wouldn’t go to waste, but I’m like, well, I don’t know, we’ll see. Another thing I wanted to mention, this is somewhat related, but it’s just an exterior thing, are we got a little free library put in, we had a dead tree in our front yard and when we got it cut down, we told them to leave like a four-foot stump and because you can get them to cut it way down and even grind the stump and I said, no, leave it four foot because I’m gonna put a little free library on top of it. So we have a little free library and I’ve noticed that people in the neighborhood are using it quite a bit. I’ve gotten a number of books out of there for Oscar. Every time I put in books, I always notice how quickly they go and it’s always the romance novels that go the quickest and I love it. And I have plenty to put in there so heads up neighborhood and right by our little free library we’ve also started to make what I call a fairy garden, but it’s basically little ceramic animals that I find at thrift stores and Oscar and I put them out there and he just likes to play with them when we’re out there and they’re very breakable. He’s broken one before because he threw it onto the sidewalk and it cracked and broke and it’s fine because we’re outside. So it’s not like inside when glass breaks or something, they’re not glass, they’re ceramic. But we have a monkey and a couple of dogs and a cat and a fish and an owl and when he sees the owl he will go, who, who and it’s really cute. So that’s our little fairy garden, I’d really like to make it a lot more aesthetic and cute in the future. But at the moment it’s just like stuff that Oscar likes and he moves them around and plays with them while we’re out there and it’s just fun. Just makes it a little destination where we can walk out there and play with him a little and then go do something else and at his age that’s great. 

Elsie: Magical. Okay, let’s talk about landscaping for a moment, because I feel like that is a really important part of curb appeal, it can be a big upgrade. So on our last home we probably did the most landscaping we’ve done because I know this story before, but after we got our house painted I was like, this looks great. When should we take photos? And the house painter was like, well, I think you need to eliminate all of the landscaping and do all new, and I was like, What, I had never been told such a big task before and it turns out he was right when we did do that job. I remember at the time it felt like such a big change. It turned out really cute. There’s like a lot of little tiny boxwood-looking bushes and then we did hydrangeas and we did panes for spring and then we had a place to do one new tree, so we did like a ginkgo tree because I love the yellow leaves at fall time and it was a very magical experience and I can’t wait to do it again. I think it opened up my mind a lot to how worthwhile it landscaping can be because it feels kind of daunting and it feels very expensive and it is very expensive. But once you’ve done it and seen what a big upgrade it can be, I think it felt a lot more worth it to me.

Emma: I honestly felt that way even about painting the exterior of your house. When I was younger, I thought, oh, I wouldn’t spend the money on that I’d rather spend the money I have to fix up my house on the inside because I’m always inside. And I think if you’re on a tight budget, like yeah, that makes sense, I get it. But after you’ve painted the exterior or whatever you’ve done, after you’ve done something to the exterior, then you see what a big difference it makes and the feeling it gives you when you pull up to your house. And also if you spend a lot of time on your front porch or your backyard or whatever, then yeah, you just kind of come to value it in a different way, or I have, maybe not everyone, but I do. So I could definitely see that with landscaping, we kind of have existing stuff from the previous owner, lots of bushes and trees that are coming back to life now and we’re hibernating all this winter. This year is really just like seeing if everything comes back, what it’s like to try to maintain it if we’re not able to, like what are we gonna do differently to make sure it’s still attractive, like are we gonna replace this or that? So that’s really all we’re doing this year is trying to figure out like, what is this treat? What are these bushes? Will they stay alive this summer? I don’t know. So we’re just gonna do our best and see. 

Elsie: Totally. Yeah. I think giving it a little bit of time to just like see what blooms your first spring is really smart because it could be surprising. If you first see it when everything’s dead, there might be a lot of perennials that you don’t even know about. Yeah. It’s very fun though, I think if you’ve never done it before and you’re gonna do it for your first time, my advice is to just be encouraged, and do a little bit at a time. It is worth it for me, at first it felt like it was in the boring money-to-spend category for house stuff. But eventually, I kind of came to appreciate it and love it, so now I’m excited to do more. The next one is the back patio. So I think that your back porch can really be the heart of your home. My favorite way to use it or the way for it to be is if your kitchen will let out into your backspace. I think that’s like amazing. That’s how it’s been at our home in Tennessee and it just made it really cozy because it’s your outdoor kitchen is next to your indoor kitchen and your outdoor dining is next to your kitchen and it just all kind of fits together really well. So if you’re planning a space from scratch, I would really recommend that. Obviously not every house is gonna have that. Our first house in Tennessee had this, it’s so random, but the kitchen was in the very front of the house. There was no possible way that it could ever connect in any way and it was always in the back of my mind when I lived there. Anyway, let’s talk about a couple of ideas for how you can upgrade your back patio. So I just got new porch furniture for our new house and I did not know, so do you know the brand Trex, they make like decking that you never have to replace. So I found out that they make tables and I got one of those tables. I’m really excited about it because I don’t know how many times in the past, which is my own fault, but I would get a very inexpensive wood table from Target or something where I would put a table out there that really shouldn’t be out there and then a season or two later it’s like completely trashed.

Emma: I might buy one of those then because we currently don’t have a back patio and we don’t really have any covered area in our backyard at all. And we just don’t really have the money to do like a huge pour cement and big awning and we don’t really have the budget for that right now. But I would really love to put a table back there because Oscar and I will sit back there and eat dinner and Trey too, it’s not like Trey’s not around. The routine is I pick him up from school, so we eat not really even dinner, but like snacks and it’s just me and him and then Trey comes home. But anyway, this probably sounds like my husband’s never home. I’m like, no, he is. He just comes home about an hour later than me. But yeah, maybe I’ll get one of those tables now that you’re mentioning it because I’m like, I need something that can sit out in the sun and the weather and won’t get completely ruined because I just have not been motivated to buy something. So I’m like, it’s gonna get completely ruined in one season because there’s just no cover for it, so that’s an idea. 

Elsie: I’m kind of at the point in my life where I’m like, I’m not buying outdoor furniture if it’s not weatherproof and I’m excited to see, I guess I’ll have to see it for a couple of seasons to see how well it wears and like how it is to clean up in the spring and things like that. But yeah, it’s worth it to me. I love outdoor furniture, but if you don’t have a covered space, then I think you have to be a lot more intentional about the stuff you choose to put out. 

Emma: You wanna hear our funny thing about our backyard? Back patio. We don’t have a patio as I mentioned, we are getting one for Oscar’s birthday in June, we’re getting him a sandbox because he loves playing in the dirt and I am a little tired of it. So we are getting the sandbox so he can play in that sandbox as much as he wants. And I’m gonna get the kind that has a cover because we don’t have any cover back there, so it can be covered up when we’re not playing with it. But I’m really excited. I think he’s gonna love it. So I’m really excited about it. 

Elsie: That’s a fun idea. I love that. Let’s talk about the backyard for a little bit. Oh my gosh. Backyard. So I’ve learned so much, I feel like, so our first house in Tennessee had this giant backyard. All it had in it was playhouses. So it was pretty much like an acre of yard that you just mow and I learned from that experience that I wanted a more concise yard, that was useful. It’s great to have a big yard if it’s useful, but I didn’t wanna just have a giant yard that was just like a lawn mowing bill or whatever. And then in our current home, we have actually a pretty small yard, our Tennessee home, feels like it’s mostly the swimming pool. Yeah. And then there are a couple of side yards that are a little bit awkward to get to. So they really don’t get used much, they don’t get played much. So if our kids play outside, they usually play in the front of the house, like in the driveway and stuff, and in the back in the pool area. Probably one of the smallest yards we’ve had. Not a lot of play space. I felt like we got so much out of it because it was well-planned. It had an outdoor dining table. We had the cornhole game, which our kids love. We had a fire pit, which they love. It was very useful and functional. So it taught me that we don’t really need a big yard, we just need a really well-planned yard. So with our new home, I’m trying to be very careful in the planning. So yeah, I’ve been getting my swimming pool quote. Everyone, cross your fingers for me because I’m terrified. I just think that when you live in the middle of the country, swimming pools are more expensive because they’re just not as common and there are not as many companies to choose from and it’s just not as competitive. But yeah, we’re planning for that. A fire pit, I’d like to have some kind of play space, but I wanna make sure it’s gonna get used a lot. And I’d like to have some kind of yard that’s open to run in, but not a lot, just like the right amount. So yeah, that’s my plan at the moment. I’ve redrawn it like a hundred times so just to encourage anyone who’s moving to a new space or planning your yard, you can’t overthink it. Really, really think about like how everything can connect together because it’s so much better to plan it over and over before you’ve spent any money than to start doing it and have regrets. 

Emma: Oh yeah, I agree. And yeah, we don’t have any huge plans for our backyard at the moment. We kind of need to get our fence replaced, but it’s gonna be like 20 to $30,000. So, we’ve kind of been putting it off. We have a fence and it’s fine, but our dog keeps finding ways to escape and he never runs away. He just like waits at the front door but he will kind of terrorize other people who are walking with their dogs because he’s not great with other dogs, that’s not good. So we’re just trying to think that through. We also have his dream, I would love to get a golf cart. Our neighborhood’s very windy and it’s a great place for kids to ride their bikes and stuff. People don’t really drive through super fast, it’s just very windy. So anyway, you could definitely drive a golf cart around our neighborhood and get to the neighborhood pool from our house. You could definitely walk, but it would take a while and if you’re with a little kid and you have a bunch of stuff like pool stuff, you’re not gonna do that. So I kind of thought the golf cart could be great for going to the pool in the summer with Oscar. I also have this dream with the golf cart that maybe I could do some kind of spooky hay ride or some kind of spooky, everyone hops on the little train, we’re going trick-or-treating around the neighborhood with the golf cart and it could look like a monster. I could decorate, I don’t know. I don’t exactly know, but I just feel like there’s something there that could be fun but our problem is we don’t know where to store the golf cart. We have a two-car garage and we each have a car. So our garage is not really big enough that we could put the golf cart in there.

So we don’t really know where it would go, because we wouldn’t want it to just be sitting out all the time. So it needs to go in the backyard somewhere, but it needs to be something at least covered, if not a little structure. So that’s sort of where we stop is we’re like, we don’t know how the golf cart’s gonna get taken care of, be stored when it’s not in use. So then we just kind of dunno what to do with that. I’ll figure it out someday. I’m gonna be driving around and the golf cart’s gonna be dressed like a monster for Halloween. I don’t know. So that we can trick or treat.

Elsie: Keep thinking in that direction. I definitely think it’s a cute idea. The last thing is a mailbox. So I had a mid-century mailbox in one of our houses, and I remember, I felt like it was such a splurge at the time. And now we have an antiquey looking mailbox at our new house. I just think mailboxes, like why not make them fit the personality of your home? I think that’s very sweet. 

Emma: Oh yeah, I agree. Ours is this kind of metal and swings open right outside our front door and I love it. I don’t plan to replace it at the moment, but I will say though, you know how when you put mail in for your mail carrier pickup, you flip up a flag usually. A standard mailbox has a flag.

Elsie: Do you have to use a close pin on the outside or something? 

Emma: Yeah, it has to have something like that. So I went online and I was like, well there’s gotta be some solution for this, I’ve seen mailboxes like this before. I’ve never had one, but there’s something and so I looked around and basically what it has right now is this little tiny plastic flag that you can push out or close and it’s on the mailbox with a command strip and it’s worked. But it requires you to very carefully open and close it and the mail carrier is closing it and I don’t know him or her, but they’re doing nothing wrong, it’s not great. It’s not a great solution, the command strip, because it’s also like commands strips are great. If you’ve heard me say it once you’ve heard it a thousand times. I love command strips. But they’re not always great outdoors. It can get very cold here, with freezing temperatures. It’s also very wet at times. And this summer it’ll get really hot. So I’m just trying to find another solution and basically on Amazon, I saw these little magnets that like say, oh, cute, pick up the mail. And so you just put the magnet on the outside. Of the metal and then they can just put it on the inside once they’ve picked up the mail. And so I bought one of those and it hasn’t come in yet, but I’m really excited about it. It has a little picture of a mail truck on it. It’s a tiny bit cheesy, but I just feel like it’s gonna be a good solution for the type of mailbox we have because there’s been a number of times I needed something to go out and the mail carrier didn’t realize I had something in the box and it didn’t go out and that is kind of a bummer. 

Elsie: That’s super annoying. That’s a cute idea. Okay, well good. We’ll have to link that in the show notes because I bet there’s someone out there, that’s also the perfect solution. 

Emma: Yeah, someone should start selling his on Etsy if they haven’t already because they’re really cute and they’re just like magnets.

Elsie: Okay. The last part of decorating the exterior of your home that I wanted to talk about is Halloween and Christmas. I think that planning ahead for this is essential. I’ve said this many times if you’re landscaping your house or whatever you’re doing, you have to think about how the Christmas lights are gonna interact with that and the skeletons and all of that. So something interesting, our friend Sarah from the Bird’s Papaya, got permanent Christmas lights put on her house. Like that stay on all year round. Did you see that? 

Emma: That’s what I have. 

Elsie: Oh my gosh. Do you have them too? 

Emma: I just don’t turn ’em on all year.

Elsie: That’s cool. Can you see them? 

Emma: Yeah, you can see them like as far as like if you’re standing outside of my house like they’re not turned on, you just see there are bulbs. 

Elsie: You just don’t care?

Emma: No, why would I care? 

Elsie: That’s really appealing to me because I just don’t wanna pay someone to put them up and down every year. But I do want them every year. 

Emma: Ours is not very elaborate. I feel like I can turn them on all winter. They don’t spell out Merry Christmas or Ho Ho Ho or anything like that. So if you wanted something really elaborate, maybe it wouldn’t be as good of a solution. Yeah. I think most people leave their Christmas lights up all year. They just don’t turn ’em on. 

Elsie: What, what really? 

Emma: If it’s not like a colored thing. They don’t leave like Santa Sleigh up on the roof all year, but other things.

Elsie: I’ve never wanted to do a poll more than I do right now because I assumed that everyone just took them down.

Emma: Maybe we should do a poll. Maybe I’m wrong. I don’t know. I could totally be wrong. 

Elsie: I’m very interested to hear now, I wanna hear. Please write into us at podcastabeautifulmess.com if you have strong feelings or experiences about permanent Christmas lights. Is there a way that I can leave my Christmas lights up forever? But it won’t look bad in the summer. That’s what I wanna know. I’m very curious about this subject. Okay, so this is how I plan Halloween and Christmas. I print off a little picture. You could also just do this on your phone, a picture of your exterior, and then I just draw on it. I just draw on it as many times as I want and just kind of plan out like what are all the different ways we could put up the decorations? There are lots of different ways you can do it, it’s so fun. One of my favorite things is driving around at Christmas and like looking at how everyone else does all their Christmas lights, the magic of planning it out, and being creative. It’s so much fun. 

Emma: Imagine driving around on a golf cart with hot chocolate, looking at all the neighbor’s Christmas lights.

Elsie: Stop it. Okay, so I have to just say in Jessica Simpson’s memoir, she was talking about trick or training with golf carts, and now I just think that you’re like so fancy. 

Emma: Doesn’t it sound like a celebrity thing? I was just complaining about how much money we need to replace our dog fence and then I’m like, but we’re gonna get this golf cart. You can’t tell my priorities are all over the place. 

Elsie: Okay. Do you wanna read the listener’s question? 

Emma: Yes, this question was emailed to us from Janie. She says, recently the pipes burst in my New York City apartment. I’m young, single, and live alone. The construction company hired by the apartment management company was trying to just paint over mold and water damage. I had to continually fight for the job to be done correctly, for sheetrock to be replaced, and I felt bad about it, like guilty for asking for the job to be done correctly. So what are your tips, tricks, experiences, and ideas for dealing with issues like this, especially as a young woman? 

Elsie: All right, I wanna start off by saying, I just wrote a post recently about how to hire a contractor on A Beautiful Mess. So we’ll link to that, and it has a whole section about dealing with sexism because dealing with sexism and people talking down to you, unfortunately, in this industry, in this situation is really bad. And I think that your experience is very common. Honestly, it’s sad, but not surprising to hear that. So yeah, I think that learning how to stand up for yourself and to assert yourself and also get what you want done, most importantly are all really good skills. Just dealing with the initial shock that people just don’t listen or try to talk you out of what you’re asking for or try to talk down to you, it’s frustrating. So do you have any good tips Em? 

Emma: Well, it sounds like Janie did exactly what she needed to do, which was keep bothering them until it gets done the way it needs to get done and when you’re talking about mold, that’s not a joke. That can mess with your health, so this isn’t just like, oh, the color’s slightly different than I thought and I want you to repaint it for free. It’s like, no, no, no, no, no mold is a serious issue. And also you did a huge favor to whoever owns your building because now there’s not gonna be mold growing forever. Sounds like she did what she needed to do, but it sounds like for Janie and definitely, for me, I almost have to just give myself a little pep talk after I have moments like that where I’m like, hey, it was okay that you did that. It was okay that you kept asking them it was okay that you told them no. Sometimes I really do have to almost talk out loud to myself and be like, it’s fine that you called them back and said this is not acceptable, you were not unkind. You were not mean, you just said what needed to be said and that is okay. Sometimes I think that needs to be something in your routine if you’re the kind of person who feels really guilty advocating for yourself, which I feel at times, so I definitely get that. And then if you’re ever like unsure, ask your friends, ask your parents, whoever you’re close with, if you’re like, am I being too much here? Check-in because your friends will tell you right away. If I had a friend be like, do you think it’s okay for them to paint over mold? I’d be like, no, you need to call them today because you cannot be living in a house with mold like that. You know that it’s there. Sometimes we live with mold and we don’t know it, but you know. If I had a friend ask me, I’d be like, no, you absolutely should call, it’s good that you’re calling. It’s good that you’re checking in. Take care of yourself. This is important for your health. So maybe reach out to friends, family members, or whoever you need to just be reassured that the thing you’re asking for is completely appropriate to ask for, and as long as you’re not being unkind, like calling someone a name, or threatening them in some way. These are things that are not appropriate, but asking for what you need even multiple times or somewhat forcefully, not yelling, but somewhat forcefully is totally appropriate and a very adult and very normal thing to do.

Elsie: Yep. And honestly, if you want to do a lot of renovations in your life, it is something that you should hone as a skill because it’s something that you’ll come back to over and over again. All righty. It’s time for our favorite part, A joke or a fact. All right. Here’s gold. Gold. Do you have a joke for us today?

Goldie: Where does a ghost like to shop? A boooo-tique.

Elsie: Good job. You did great. Okay, thanks so much for listening. If you have any questions or podcast requests for future episodes. Email us anytime at podcast@abeautifulmess.com, or you can call our voicemail and leave us a message at 417-893-0011. We’ll be back next week with a deep dive into hobbies.

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How to Paint Roof Shingles (And When Not To) https://abeautifulmess.com/how-to-paint-roof-shingles-and-when-not-to/ https://abeautifulmess.com/how-to-paint-roof-shingles-and-when-not-to/#comments Sat, 01 Oct 2022 13:00:00 +0000 https://abeautifulmess.com/?p=97754 If you have an asphalt shingle roof that you don’t love the color of, you may have asked yourself, “Can you paint roof shingles?” The answer to that question (maybe to your surprise) is YES!

Painting shingles is a relatively easy process and can be a lot more budget-friendly than re-shingling the roof. We just completed a backyard makeover for our outdoor pavilion and I really hated the multi-colored brown shingles that topped the roof.

The color style really added to the feeling of it being a structure in a public park (rather than a more modern backyard oasis). When I found out it was possible to paint the asphalt shingles, I jumped at the chance.

before and after of painted shingle pavilion roof
painted shingle pavilion roof

It’s a good idea to get a roof inspection done first so that you can spot any repairs that may need to be done before painting.

SAFETY NOTE: Any time there are roofs and ladders involved, make sure to take full safety precautions and work with a partner or proper fall arrest safety equipment if attempting to DIY this project.

If you don’t feel fully comfortable in being able to DIY this safely, hire professional roof washers and painters to do the job for you!

Frequently Asked Questions

Do you have to use a special paint to paint roof shingles?

Yes! You’ll want to use an acrylic latex paint that’s recommended for outdoor use on roof items like shingles (Behr Multi-Surface Roof Paint or Sherwin Williams Resilience paint are good examples) to make sure to lengthen the life of your paint job.

The water-based paint will allow moisture to escape from the shingles so that algae and mold aren’t encouraged to grow.

Do you need to prime roof shingles before painting them?

Priming the shingles before painting them will help your final topcoat of paint adhere the best that it can for the overall best bond.

Use one that’s for all materials and can be used outside (like this Multi-Surface Exterior Primer) so that it will adhere to the shingles properly.

Can you paint a roof that’s in bad condition?

While you can technically paint a roof with shingles that aren’t in great shape (although any roof repairs should really be done before painting), it may not be worth the money and effort to paint the roof (if what you really need is a new roof overall).

Painting a roof won’t fix any leaking issues or areas where shingles may be lifting up, so it may be better overall to replace the roof and choose a new shingle color you like during a replacement rather than try and paint it.

Are there any cons to painting a shingle roof?

It’s a good idea to have the painted shingles inspected once a year to look for any signs of peeling or chipping. Extreme weather climates will accelerate the wear and tear of paint faster than moderate climates will.

shingle roof with moss and algae growing on it

Step One: Clean the Roof

Like most painting projects, you want to clean the area you’re about to paint before you actually start painting. Roofs are no exception and you’ll especially want to clean spots that get less sun and have moss or algae growing on them.

Using a power washer is the most efficient way to clean a roof, which you can either do yourself if it’s a smaller lower structure like our pavilion and you have the power washer and ladder, or you can hire someone to wash it for you.

You can damage shingles by blowing water at them too hard (especially in an upward direction), so keep that in mind and have a professional do it if you don’t feel comfortable.

If the roof has a lot of algae, you may want to spray and apply a solution of 50% water and 50% bleach to kill the algae to keep it from coming back longer. Water any plants below the roof drip line well (if they are already wet it keeps the bleach from soaking into them).

Then, rinse the plants well again when you are all done applying your mixture to the roof. Allow the roof to dry completely before painting so you don’t encourage the growth of mold or wood rot under the paint.

primer painted on shingle pavilion roof

Step 2: Prime the Roof

While some paints may have a primer built in, it can be a good idea to use a bonding primer so that the paint will adhere to your shingles in the strongest bond. Something like this Multi-Surface Exterior Primer or this Extreme Bond Primer will do the trick.

Set up any drop cloths where needed to protect other areas or plants from overspray. Apply the primer in an even coat with a spray gun (you can also rent paint guns as well) and allow the primer to fully dry.

before and after of painted shingle pavilion roof

Step 3: Paint the Roof

Once your primer is dry, apply your roof paint in thin even coats with a sprayer, allowing adequate dry time in between coats until all the shingles are evenly coated.

This will most likely take at least 1-2 coats, but may need more depending on how thin you spray it and what color you are trying to achieve (the primer is white so dark final colors may take more coats to fully cover).

painted shingle pavilion roof
painted shingle pavilion roof
painted shingle pavilion roof

While painting a roof is a temporary improvement (several coats of paint can lengthen the life of a roof by protecting it from wear and UV damage which is a plus), it can be worth the effort, especially in cases like mine of a smaller structure where the overall cost was pretty low.

I’m really glad we decided to paint our shingles. The paint helped to modernize the look of the structure, protect the shingles a bit more over the next few years, and we didn’t have to replace the whole roof to achieve a similar look.

While painting may not be the best option in every situation, I’m glad we decided to go for it on our pavilion makeover! xo. Laura

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A Backyard Makeover For Our Outdoor Pavilion (Before + After!) https://abeautifulmess.com/a-backyard-makeover-for-our-outdoor-pavilion-before-after/ https://abeautifulmess.com/a-backyard-makeover-for-our-outdoor-pavilion-before-after/#comments Wed, 31 Aug 2022 13:00:00 +0000 https://abeautifulmess.com/?p=95666 When we first moved into our home almost two years ago, the yard was a bit of a hot mess and it was clear it needed a backyard makeover.

It looked like it was full of nice flower beds and manicured bushes decades ago, but it had been let go for so long that we ended up having to rip most of it out and start the landscaping all over again.

Nestled into the yard was a small pavilion that had that “forgotten” vibe as well, and I wasn’t sure when we would actually have time to get to that, based on all the other projects we had to do. But guess what?? It’s done!

We made over the carport at our last home to be a beautiful outdoor covered area, and we really loved having a covered space with comfy seating where you could cool down in the summer and enjoy a fall day by the fire table.

So, we decided to make our pavilion serve as the same thing for us here, and it’s such a cozy vibe that it was totally worth the wait.

Check out the rest of my before + after home tours, like my …

While the structure of the pavilion hasn’t technically changed that much, we did remove the rotting side boards, and installed more sway support up into the beams of the rafters so that we could leave the sides open for a better view.

We also had the pavilion uniformly painted a faded warm black to modernize it a bit and painted the whole underside of the roof, which was just plain plywood before. It looks so much better when you are hanging out inside the structure.

The shingles on the roof were a multi-color brown and we painted them black to match the rest of it. Did you know you can paint shingles? You can read my post about that here.

We also added a stone paver walkway to the pavilion, and I love how it makes it feel like you are stepping into a cozy little cottage now.

We loved having an Article sectional in our last space, so we chose this corner sectional from them for the pavilion, and it’s perfect for the space.

I love that it has built-in Acacia side tables so you have a place to put your drink (or a few small plants) and it’s the perfect size to spread out and lounge when I read, or have a few friends over to sit by the fire table.

The modular cushion design makes it feel more modern with the sleek powder-coated frame and the light cushions are easy to clean.

Since we were painting the structure black, I wanted to add in some bits of black to the furniture as well, so I chose this rounded lounge chair. It’s the perfect addition to the space.

It’s big enough that we can sit in it with our daughter for snuggling and the synthetic wicker accents are weatherproof, but add a bit of natural looking material as well.

What’s an outdoor seating area without pillows? I chose this set of larger pink pillows and this lumbar set of orange pillows to add a pop of color and make sure we could lounge in comfort.

For a more natural material, I added in woven round pillows (similar here) to match the chair wicker details. I like how all the pillows work together.

I wanted to add a little more color with the rug, so I chose this pink outdoor rug that fills most of the space. These terrazzo planters are beautiful—I love that they come in a large and small size.

They have some speckles of pink in them as well as blues and grays to add some textural dimension to the decor. I’ll probably bring them inside in the winter because they are too pretty to leave outside empty all winter long.

I also added a little more pink by hanging some of these planters in the macrame plant holders I had (similar to these, although these are cute too). Adding some greenery to the upper space helped balance out the plants on the floor.

Outdoor spaces are all about mood lighting, so I added these LED string lights that we had at our last house to the rafter beams of the pavilion. I love that if you add this you can dim them (to whatever you want) to set the mood.

I also had these lanterns that I put in the space, and I like the natural look they add—and they are battery powered (similar ones here).

And I feel like I can never again have an outdoor space again without a fire table, and this one is perfect for the space. The white concrete is really pretty with the light-colored cushions on the furniture.

It’s a good idea to protect your outdoor furniture to make it last, so we have a sectional cover to go over the couch, and a cover for the fire table to use when it’s off season or if there’s inclement weather in the forecast.

Have outdoor furniture? Get our tips to take care through all seasons so it lasts!

Overall, the cleanup and fresh paint for the pavilion, the perfect furniture, the added mood lights, and the landscaping we’ve worked hard on have really made this feel like a cozy space that’s been brought back to life.

I hope that you agree! If you need me this fall, I’ll be out here by the fire table, hot chocolate in hand … xo. Laura

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How to Make a Giant 100-Foot Slip and Slide https://abeautifulmess.com/giant-100-foot-slip-and-slide-diy/ https://abeautifulmess.com/giant-100-foot-slip-and-slide-diy/#comments Wed, 20 Jul 2022 13:00:00 +0000 https://abeautifulmess.com/?p=73660 Is there anything more summer than a slip and slide?! I definitely slid down my fair share of slip and slides as a kid.

A few summers ago, my husband and I decided to take advantage of our sloped backyard and gathered the supplies for a giant 100-foot slip and slide. This DIY is perfect for the whole family!

It’s pretty quick to set up, and while a sloped yard is super helpful, you can also do this on a flat surface.

Related: For more kids activities and printables check out Childhood Magic!

The other great thing is that you can reuse the main items year after year, and even use them for other things as well! We brought ours with us in our move from Nashville and set it up again in our front yard here in Pittsburgh.

And just a very clear safety warning, you can totally injure yourself on a slip and slide when being too energetic or reckless, so please go easy and be careful!

Slip and slides can be a family-friendly afternoon of fun for everyone when enjoyed safely at appropriate speeds, but I think everyone has also heard a slide-related injury story, so be smart and use good judgment—especially when kids are present. One person at a time is the safest way to slide.

OK, here’s how we made our own giant slip and slide!

Supplies:
-box of pool noodles (you’ll want about 30-35 noodles)
100 feet of plastic sheeting (6 mil thick)
-additional 6 ml of sheeting for splash zone (optional)
6″ lawn stakes
-4-6 hay bales
-hose or sprinkler for water source (at the top)
-liquid soap (optional) *something natural like this is a good idea so it won’t hurt your lawn

First, lay out your 100-foot plastic sheet on the yard. Lay out your pool noodles on each side of the sheet, saving one or two for the very top of the slide.

Ideally, you want your noodles to lay end-to-end down the sides, but if there’s a little space between them, it’s fine.

With one person working each side of the slide, roll your pool noodles into the plastic sheet so the noodles are a little more than fully wrapped inside it.

Use your 6″ lawn stakes to keep your noodles in place (you’ll want at least two per noodle). You might want to use a rubber mallet to fully hit them into the ground.

Move onto the next noodle and work your way down the slide as someone rolls and stakes the opposite side as you go. Once all your noodles are in, roll a noodle into the top of the plastic and stake it in place so the top is secured.

We found that hay bales are a great way to make a little stopping point at the end of your slide since they are solid (but forgiving) if you hit into them at the end. They also make a little splash zone at the end, which is kind of fun!

Set your hay bales up in a semi-circle at the end of your slide and pull the bottom of your long plastic sheet up and over the bales and secure with stakes on the other side. You can go into the bottom back of the hay bales or the ground.

Or you can use a separate piece of plastic sheet if you have another one and cover over the whole thing first, tucking all the extra under the bales. Then, pull the bottom of your long plastic sheet up and over.

The extra sheets tend to keep the bales in place and cover over all the hay, which can be a little scratchy to hit into with your bare skin.

Once your slip and slide is in place, it’s time to add water and start sliding! We set up our hose nozzle on the shower setting and laid it at the top of our slide for our water source. You really don’t need a lot of water to get going on the slide, so find the lowest setting that still allows you to have enough to slide on.

Should I use soap on the slip and slide?

Putting down a little soap on your body, a raft, or the slide can also help, but don’t go crazy—you just need a little bit! Make sure to turn off the water if no one is sliding or if you take a snack break to conserve use.

Blowing up some pool rafts is also a fun way to go down the slide, and they give a little more cushion. Kids love them, too!

I strongly suggest using the 6″ long stakes since they are much less likely to come out or be a safety hazard. I went around with a rubber mallet halfway through the party and hit back down any stakes that were trying to come up, just to be safe.

How do you remove and dry the slip and slide?

When it’s time to tear down the slide, pull out all the stakes and unwrap the pool noodles. Let the noodles fully air dry before putting them away back in their box. The hardest part of the slip and slide process is drying out your long slide before putting it away.

You’ll want to get it up off the ground so both sides are dry before you put it away—that way, you don’t pull out a gross moldy tarp the next time you go to use it.

You can hang the slide over porch railings, outdoor chairs, or a fence, but you really want it to be pretty dry before putting it away (you can towel off areas as needed).

The hay bales can be used in the yard for landscaping purposes (we’ve been growing grass and reseeding patches constantly) or you can use them for bonfire seating or fall decor as it gets later in the season!

This was such a fun summer afternoon for us and our friends! And I’m so happy we blew up a rainbow arch sprinkler for the top as the entry point. We used it more for looks that day—a sprinkler can also be a great water source for the top of your slide!

I hope you enjoyed seeing one of our favorite summer traditions! xo. Laura

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How to Make a Giant 100-ft. Slip and Slide

Keyword slip and slide

Ingredients

Instructions

  • First, lay out your 100-foot sheet down the yard. Lay out your pool noodles on each side of the sheet, saving one or two for the very top of the slide.
    Ideally you want your noodles to lay end to end down the sides, but we are down a few noodles over the years, so there was a little space between them and it still worked out fine.
  • With one person working each side of the slide, roll your pool noodles into the plastic so that the noodle is a little more than fully wrapped in it.
    Use your 6″ lawn stakes to keep your noodles in place (you’ll want at least two per noodle) and you may want a rubber mallet to fully hit them into the ground.
    Move onto the next noodle and work your way down the slide as someone rolls and stakes the opposite side as you go. Once all your noodles are in, roll a noodle into the top of the plastic as well and stake it in place so the top is secured.
  • We found that hay bales are a great way to make a little stopping point at the end of your slide since they are solid but forgiving if you hit into them at the end. They also make a little splash zone at the end, which is also kind of fun!
    Set your hay bales up in a semi-circle at the end of your slide and either pull the bottom of your long plastic sheet up and over the bales and secure with stakes on the other side (you can go into the bottom back of the hay bales or the ground) or you can use a separate piece of plastic if you have another tarp and cover over the whole thing first, tucking all the extra under the bales.
    Then, pull the bottom of your long plastic sheet up and over.
    The extra sheets tends to keep the bales in place and covers over all the hay, which can be a little scratchy to hit into with your bare skin.
  • Once your slip and slide is in place, it’s time to add water and slide! We just set up a hose nozzle on a shower setting and laid it at the top of our slide for our water source. You really don’t need a lot of water to get going on the slide, so find the lowest setting that still allows you to have enough to slide on.
    Putting down a little soap on your body, a raft, or the slide can also help, but don’t go crazy—you just need a little bit! Make sure to turn off the water if no one is sliding or if you take a snack break to conserve use.
    Blowing up your pool rafts is also a fun way to go down the slide that can give you a little more cushion and kids love to ride down them as well.
  • I strongly suggest using the 6″ long stakes and not shorter ones since they are much less likely to come out and be a safety hazard as they are well in the ground.
    But I did go around with a rubber mallet halfway through the party and hit back down any stakes that were trying to come up at all, just to be safe.
  • When it’s time to tear down the slide, pull out all the stakes and unwrap the pool noodles. Let the noodles fully air dry before putting them away back in their box.
    The hardest part of the slip and slide process is drying out your long slide before putting it away.
    You’ll want to get it up off the ground so both sides are dry before you put it away. That way you don’t pull out a gross moldy tarp the next time you go to use it.
    You can hang it over porch railings, outdoor chairs, fences, whatever you have, but you really want it to be pretty dry before putting it away (you can towel off areas as needed).
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How To Paint Plastic (and Make It Last!) https://abeautifulmess.com/how-to-paint-plastic-and-make-it-last/ https://abeautifulmess.com/how-to-paint-plastic-and-make-it-last/#comments Mon, 11 Jul 2022 13:00:00 +0000 https://abeautifulmess.com/?p=92725 Whether you have some lawn furniture that’s seen better days or a kid’s toy that has been worn down with use, knowing how to paint plastic means that you can give fresh life to a piece (rather than having to say goodbye too soon).

Plastic is one of the more difficult surfaces to paint because of its smooth surface, and plastic responds to temperature more easily by expanding and contracting, so it’s more prone to cracking or flaking over time.

By taking a little extra care, you can get a new paint job that looks great (and will last longer) than if you rush through the process and skip right to the painting.

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pink plastic slide on a playground

I painted my daughter’s plastic slide on the DIY Mid-Century Play Set Makeover I did for her, and this plastic gets the most beating of any possible item. It sits directly in the sun, so there’s a lot of swelling and shrinking with the weather.

Plus, it’s outside in the winter and all the other elements, and has kids literally sliding down and climbing up it almost every day. It takes a beating, but it’s easy to refresh the paint as needed.

And when you paint a plastic object that’s indoors or used more gently in a covered space, well, you can imagine how much longer the paint job stays pristine.

comparison of before and after the slide is painted

Prepping your area before painting: Spray painting is always best done outside whenever possible because of fumes and overspray. Check the paint can for the temperature requirements so that it’s not too cold for the paint to set properly.

Put down a tarp, plastic sheet, or a large piece of cardboard so your lawn/patio will be protected—paint soaks into cardboard easily, so that’s what I usually use.

Paint Tip! If there are areas you don’t want to paint (or want to paint a different color), tape off those areas with painter’s tape or wrap plastic around those spots and use painter’s tape to keep the plastic in place.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do you need to prime plastic before painting?

Even though there are paints out there with a primer already included, when painting plastic it’s a good idea to use a plastic-specific primer first for best adhesion. Do it after the surface is roughed up a bit with sandpaper and cleaned, and apply it in even light coats.

two cans of spray paint

Supplies:

Frequently Asked Questions

Do you need to use a special paint for plastic?

Yes! Most paints will say clearly what materials they are intended for, but there are a few that are specifically formulated more towards plastics, so you’ll want to use one of those.

Lines like Krylon Fusion, Rust-Oleum Universal, and Rust-Oleum Painter’s Touch 2X Ultra Cover are some of the most popular choices.

scrubbing plastic slide with a scrub brush

Step one: Clean off the surface with a scrub brush. Using it dry first will remove any loose or flaking paint if the item has been painted before, and going over it again with some soapy water will remove dirt on the surface as well.

If the item is outdoor furniture, you may need a little elbow grease to get off areas that have mildew or algae growing.

mineral spirits, a rag, and sandpaper

Step two: Sand your item with fine grit sandpaper. Since most plastic is smooth, you want to rough up the surface a bit to give the paint something to stick to.

Fine sandpaper will rough up the smooth surface without leaving visible sanding marks, so make sure to keep it to a fine grit.

Step three: Remove sanding dust. Now that your item has a rougher surface, make sure to clean off all the sanding dust so that there’s no barrier between the paint and the item so they can properly adhere.

Use a dry cloth first to get the bulk of the dust and then use a wet rag with mineral spirits or isopropyl alcohol to trap the final particles.

slide painted with white primer

Step four: Paint with primer. Lay your item flat onto your cardboard or tarp and spray it with thin even coats of primer.

Keep going in one direction in a close zig-zag pattern (don’t go backwards where you already sprayed). Allow it to fully dry according to the can directions before proceeding.

Paint Tip! Spray a test item first to make sure paint is mixed well enough or isn’t past it’s shelf life if it’s one you’ve had for a bit. Sometimes the nozzles on spray cans can get clogged, which you can usually fix by taking off the nozzle and soaking in mineral spirits or paint thinner for a few hours before putting it back on.

If you just start spraying your item right away, you may get a chunky thick spray that you can’t really fix once it’s on, so it’s better to test it first to make sure it’s spraying smoothly and evenly.

slide painted pink

Step five: Spray paint with your final color. Plastic isn’t absorbent, and it doesn’t soak up paint like most materials, so you really have to do more coats of light coverage to avoid drips.

Have patience and do one light coat at a time, waiting the proper dry time between coats according to the paint directions, until your whole item is covered evenly.

Paint Tip! Make sure not to spray too closely! Hold the can 8-12″ away from the item and tilt down at a 45° angle to spray light coats.

pink slide on playground set

How to Paint Plastic Painting Tips:

  • If the item is something that is handled or sat on, wait several days to let it totally cure before using.
  • If you feel like there’s a slight roughness to the paint in spots, you can use an extra fine sandpaper to gently smooth out those spots in a light circular motion when the paint is 100% dry. Then, wipe the paint dust away with a dry and then a wet cloth (just wet with water).
  • Make sure to shake the paint can every so often to keep it mixed evenly.
  • Once you are down to the end of the can, don’t use the very last of the paint. It tends to come out chunky near the end, so just leave the last bit in the can.

There you have it! Now you can be your own plastic painting expert and refresh the plastic items in your home to give them a whole new life. xo. Laura

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How to Paint Plastic

how to paint (or re-paint) a plastic item properly
Prep Time 1 hour
Cook Time 1 hour
Total Time 2 hours
Servings 1
Cost $15

Ingredients

  • fine sandpaper
  • scrub brush
  • mineral spirits or isopropyl alcohol
  • rags
  • plastic-specific primer
  • plastic-specific spray paint

Instructions

  • Step one: Clean off the surface with a scrub brush. Using it dry first will remove any loose or flaking paint if the item has been painted before, and going over it again with some soapy water will remove dirt on the surface as well. If the item is outdoor furniture, you may need a little elbow grease to get off areas that have mildew or algae growing.
  • Step two: Sand your item with fine grit sandpaper. Since most plastic is smooth, you want to rough up the surface a bit to give the paint something to stick to. Fine sandpaper will rough up the smooth surface without leaving visible sanding marks, so make sure to keep it to a fine grit.
  • Step three: Remove sanding dust. Now that your item has a rougher surface, make sure to clean off all the sanding dust so that there’s no barrier between the paint and the item so they can properly adhere. Use a dry cloth first to get the bulk of the dust and then use a wet rag with mineral spirits or isopropyl alcohol to trap the final particles.
  • Step four: Paint with primer. Lay your item flat onto your cardboard or tarp and spray it with thin even coats of primer. Keep going in one direction in a close zig-zag pattern (don’t go backwards where you already sprayed). Allow it to fully dry according to the can directions before proceeding.
  • Step five: Spray paint with your final color. Plastic isn’t absorbent so it doesn’t soak up paint like most materials, so you really have to do more coats of light coverage to avoid drips. Have patience and do one light coat at a time, waiting the proper dry time between coats according to the paint directions, until your whole item is covered evenly.

Notes

How to Paint Plastic Painting Tips:

  • If the item is something that is handled or sat on, wait several days to let it totally cure before using.
  • If you feel like there’s a slight roughness to the paint in spots, you can use an extra fine sandpaper to gently smooth out those spots in a light circular motion when the paint is 100% dry and then wipe the paint dust away with a dry and then a wet cloth (just wet with water).
  • Make sure to shake the paint can every so often to keep it mixed evenly.
  • Once you are down to the end of the can, don’t use the very last of the paint. It tends to come out chunky near the end, so just leave the last bit in the can.
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Make Your Own Outdoor Cushions! https://abeautifulmess.com/make-your-own-outdoor-cushions/ https://abeautifulmess.com/make-your-own-outdoor-cushions/#comments Thu, 30 Jun 2022 13:00:00 +0000 https://staging.abeautifulmess.com/make-your-own-outdoor-cushions Do you remember the cozy outdoor space that we created at our studio years ago?

Josh made amazing bench seating to give us a place to lounge, and we decided to add some thick outdoor cushions to make the seating area more comfy.

Having outdoor cushions makes a space look finished and one million times more comfortable. Here’s how to make your own!

Related: Make Your Own Fire Pit, Mid-Century Pergola DIY, and The Best Outdoor Furniture.

Sew your own outdoor cushions

Make Your Own Outdoor Cushions! (click through for tutorial)Supplies:
canvas twill or outdoor fabric
outdoor cushion filling
-standard sewing machine
zipper the width of your cushion
fabric scissors and sewing pins
waterproofing spray

Make Your Own Outdoor Cushions! (click through for tutorial) First, I measured the width and depth of each seat to see how big the cushions should be. The cushion filling I bought was 4″ tall, so I knew that number would be the height of my cushion.

Make Your Own Outdoor Cushions! (click through for tutorial) To figure out the fabric dimensions for the cushion panels, take the width and depth measurements and add 1″ to both numbers to allow for a 1/2″ seam allowance all around. These measurements are for the top and bottom panels of the cushion.

To determine the side panel length, add the original measurements (the numbers before the additional inches for seam allowance) of all four sides of the large panel together.

Add 1″ onto that big number to allow for a 1/2″ seam allowance. The height of your super-long side panel is the height of the cushion filling with 1″ added for a 1/2″ seam allowance. 

Take these dimensions and cut your top and bottom panel and your long side panel accordingly.

Make Your Own Outdoor Cushions! (click through for tutorial) Make Your Own Outdoor Cushions! (click through for tutorial) Use fabric scissors to round the edge of your fabric corners on your two larger panels.

To connect your long side panel strip and make one big continuous loop around the edge of your cushion, fold the panel in half (with the right sides facing each other), and sew 1/2″ from the edge to connect the ends.

Line up the edges of your side panel loop of fabric with the edge of the top panel (with the right sides together), and pin the edge in place.

Make Your Own Outdoor Cushions! (click through for tutorial) To make the corners easier to sew, add some “V”-shaped notches around each corner.

Make Your Own Outdoor Cushions! (click through for tutorial) Use your machine to sew all the way around the edges with a 1/2″ seam allowance. 

Make Your Own Outdoor Cushions! (click through for tutorial) Pin the bottom panel to the side panel in the same manner as the top panel, and make notches on all the corners.

Make Your Own Outdoor Cushions! (click through for tutorial) Before you sew all the way around the bottom panel, you’ll want to add a zipper at one of the ends so you can insert your cushion filling.

Place the zipper face down onto the right side of the fabric at one of the ends of your bottom panel. Pin the zipper in place so that the zipper will be installed 1/2″ from the edge. 

Watch the video below to learn how to install your zipper:

Make Your Own Outdoor Cushions! (click through for tutorial) Use a zipper foot on your machine to sew the right side of the zipper in place.

Make Your Own Outdoor Cushions! (click through for tutorial) Repeat the process of pinning and sewing the other side of the zipper so that you have a functional zipper installed.

Now you can sew all the way around the rest of the bottom panel (starting at the end of the zipper and stopping when you reach the beginning of it).

Make sure to leave your zipper open a few inches before you sew all the way around so you can get back in later! Flip your cushion cover right side out, and you’re ready to add the filling!

Make Your Own Outdoor Cushions! (click through for tutorial) Use a ruler and a marker to measure the appropriate width of your cushion filling.* If you aren’t able to buy a cushion long enough that’s in one piece, you just use as many pieces as needed to fill the cushion length.

*NOTE: I would highly suggest making the width and length of the insert a little bigger than your actual cover dimensions (maybe add an inch to both). This way, the insert will fit snugly into the cover and you will have a full-looking cushion.

Make Your Own Outdoor Cushions! (click through for tutorial) Now, I’ve heard that some people use jigsaws or even electric turkey carving knives to cut foam and filling, but the thing that worked the best for me was actually a plain handsaw. Weird, right?

The saw was able to do most of the cutting pretty easily, but I did use some fabric scissors to clean up the edge a bit.

Once my filling was cut to size, we folded the filling in half like a taco shell and inserted it into the cushion cover through the zipper opening. Use your waterproof spray to seal your fabric, and you’re done!

Sew your own outdoor cushions

Sew your own outdoor cushions Sew your own outdoor cushions Throw in some outdoor pillows (or you can make your own) a few concrete planters, an outdoor rug and your space is ready to go!

Once you get this cushion-making technique down, you’ll be not only able to update your outdoor space, but you can also apply the principles to making cushions for lots of other seating options as well.

Happy sewing! xo. Laura

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Make Your Own Outdoor Cushions

Keyword outdoor cushions

Equipment

  • standard sewing machine
  • fabric scissors
  • sewing pins

Ingredients

  • canvas twill or outdoor fabric
  • outdoor cushion filling
  • zipper the width of your cushion

Instructions

  • First, I measured the width and depth of each seat to see how big the cushions should be. The cushion filling I bought was 4″ tall, so I knew that number would be the height of my cushion.
  • To figure out the fabric dimensions for the cushion panels, take the width and depth measurements and add 1″ to both numbers to allow for a 1/2″ seam allowance all around. These measurements are for the top and bottom panels of the cushion.
    To determine the side panel length, add the original measurements (the numbers before the additional inches for seam allowance) of all four sides of the large panel together. Add 1″ onto that big number to allow for a 1/2″ seam allowance. The height of your super-long side panel is the height of the cushion filling with 1″ added for a 1/2″ seam allowance. 
  • Take these dimensions and cut your top and bottom panel and your long side panel accordingly.
  • Use fabric scissors to round the edge of your fabric corners on your two larger panels.
    To connect your long side panel strip and make one big continuous loop around the edge of your cushion, fold the panel in half (with the right sides facing each other), and sew 1/2″ from the edge to connect the ends.
    Line up the edges of your side panel loop of fabric with the edge of the top panel (with the right sides together), and pin the edge in place.
  • To make the corners easier to sew, add some “V”-shaped notches around each corner.
  • Use your machine to sew all the way around the edges with a 1/2″ seam allowance. 
  • Pin the bottom panel to the side panel in the same manner as the top panel, and make notches on all the corners.
  • Before you sew all the way around the bottom panel, you’ll want to add a zipper at one of the ends so you can insert your cushion filling.
    Place the zipper face down onto the right side of the fabric at one of the ends of your bottom panel. Pin the zipper in place so that the zipper will be installed 1/2″ from the edge. 
  • Use a zipper foot on your machine to sew the right side of the zipper in place.
  • Repeat the process of pinning and sewing the other side of the zipper so that you have a functional zipper installed. Now you can sew all the way around the rest of the bottom panel (starting at the end of the zipper and stopping when you reach the beginning of it).
    Make sure to leave your zipper open a few inches before you sew all the way around so you can get back in later! Flip your cushion cover right side out, and you’re ready to add the filling!
  • Use a ruler and a marker to measure the appropriate width of your cushion filling.* If you aren’t able to buy a cushion long enough that’s in one piece, you just use as many pieces as needed to fill the cushion length.
    I would highly suggest making the width and length of the insert a little bigger than your actual cover dimensions (maybe add an inch to both). This way the insert will fit snugly into the cover and you will have a full-looking cushion.
  • Now, I’ve heard that some people use jigsaws or even electric turkey carving knives to cut foam and filling, but the thing that worked the best for me was actually a plain old handsaw. Weird, right?
    The saw was able to do most of the cutting pretty easily, but I did use some fabric scissors to clean up the edge a bit.
    Once my filling was cut to size, we folded the filling in half like a taco shell and inserted it into the cushion cover through the zipper opening. Use your waterproof spray to seal your fabric, and you’re done!
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How Elsie Set Up Her Potting Station https://abeautifulmess.com/how-elsie-set-up-her-potting-station/ https://abeautifulmess.com/how-elsie-set-up-her-potting-station/#comments Thu, 23 Jun 2022 13:30:00 +0000 https://abeautifulmess.com/?p=93322 It’s no secret that I’m a huge plant lover. I love to decorate our home and outdoor spaces with living plants.

During the spring, I usually add a lot of new outdoor plants, and when the weather starts to turn cold I bring them indoors for the winter. 

This post is in partnership with Walmart. As soon as I saw this potting station, I ran outside and measured our space to make sure it would fit. It was easy to put together and is super functional for plant projects year-round. 

woman in dress standing in front of a potting station.

What to Look For in a Potting Station:

There are lots of options online for potting stations. Here are my tips for picking one out!

  • Think through what size is manageable for your space and gardening goals.
  • Choose a spot where you aren’t afraid to make a mess. I chose outdoors for this reason.
  • Think year-round about your gardening projects.
Potting station in backyard.

How to Pick Herbs for Your Garden:

My favorite plants to keep are herbs. I specifically love rosemary and mint because I use them the most when cooking. I try to keep them all the time. I also love aloe because I grew up with my mom putting it on my cuts and scrapes, and now I do that for my kids. 

  • Choose herbs you use often for cooking.
  • Keep a list of recipes you can use your herbs to create.
  • Remember to water your herbs almost daily—they need a lot of water.
Aloe plant sitting in a planter.

I used to only collect white pots all the time, but recently I am enjoying various textures and natural colors, as well. 

plant with large pink leaves.
plant sitting on top of a stool by a potting station.

I love these decorative stools and use them all over our outdoor spaces for plant stands, and as side tables beside our pool chairs.

Thing to Add to Your Potting Station:

  • Gardening tools like a trowel, shears, or a spade (I love this set)
  • Potting soil and seeds
  • Gloves
  • Watering cans (these copper ones are cute and functional!)
gardening tools sitting on potting station work table.

Are these not the cutest gardening tools you have ever seen? I love a matching set like this. These would make a cute gift as well! 

Links: Potting Station / Gardening Tool Set / Copper Watering Cans / Decorative Stool

I hope this post has been helpful. If you have any questions, I’d love to answer them in the comments. xx- Elsie 

P.S. Here’s a link to my dress, too!

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Everything You Need For Outdoor Dining! https://abeautifulmess.com/everything-you-need-for-outdoor-dining/ https://abeautifulmess.com/everything-you-need-for-outdoor-dining/#respond Tue, 21 Jun 2022 13:00:00 +0000 https://abeautifulmess.com/?p=91565 The weather is warming up, and that means your parties and dining experiences are moving to the great outdoors!

Whether you have a large party that you want to host, a family dinner on the patio, or it’s just you and your bestie and a few glasses of watermelon frosé, we’ve got a list of all the items you need to get your outdoor dining started.

From sturdy plates and cups, tablecloths and napkins, food covers, ice buckets and coolers, now you can party from summer all the way into the fall … and if you’re looking for patio furniture, check out The Best Outdoor Furniture!

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Hosting a party? Check out our Easy Summer Cocktail + Appetizer Recipes!

collage of outdoor dining essentials

white food cover / wicker tray / strawberry dish / wood tray / checkered tablecloth / pink plate / silverware / watermelon napkins and plates / cake stand / food cover set / checkered napkins / watermelon tablecloth / dining set / bamboo plate / white tray

Elsie has been raving about how much she loves food covers like these (this is more of a metal dome style) to keep bugs and flies off of your spread. And, having an array of trays to carry and display food is a must.

Nothing says summer like a checkered tablecloth or napkins and little accents of watermelon is always a summer favorite.

Broken plates and cups outdoors can be a real party killer, so choosing non-glass serving ware keeps the party going even if there’s a spill …

collage of outdoor dining essentials

patio cooler / fluted pink glass / white drink tub / pink tall tumbler / fluter pitcher / can coozy / tall boy can coozy / beverage dispenser / colored glassware / cactus beverage dispenser / orange tipped pitcher / gold salad tongs / gold spatula / pink vintage cooler / ice bucket

If you have larger parties, a patio cooler can be a life saver, but a drink tub or two is the perfect choice for smaller gatherings.

Using can coozies will keep your drinks cold for hours, and they are perfect party gifts for a summer gathering.

Pitchers are great for a smaller batch of margaritas, but beverage dispensers are the way to go for bigger parties so people can serve themselves.

Don’t forget a condiment caddy so you can keep all the hot dog fixings together! Happy hosting!

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The Best Outdoor Furniture! https://abeautifulmess.com/the-best-outdoor-furniture/ https://abeautifulmess.com/the-best-outdoor-furniture/#comments Fri, 03 Jun 2022 13:00:00 +0000 https://abeautifulmess.com/?p=72627 I love shopping for outdoor furniture! Patio sets and fun umbrellas (like this pom pom one!) are really exciting to buy because you are picturing outdoor parties and late night hangs on your patio or porch all summer long.

Since I’m keeping an eye out for good outdoor pieces, I thought I’d share with you some of my favorites that I’ve found so far!

Check out our favorite outdoor DIY projects!

Links: black wire sofa / white round wicker chair / mint chair / macrame hanging chair / cream loveseat / wicker side chair / wicker chair with cream cushion / pink bistro set / pink metal chair / teak furniture set / wicker and metal chair / Parisian bistro chair / rattan side chair / rattan hanging chair / yellow bistro set / wicker egg chair

If you have the space for it, an outdoor patio set is a great way to go to bundle all your pieces together so they match. But, smaller porches and decks can get away with a few chairs with some side tables or a coffee table for the main serving area.

I’m thinking about putting that pretty rattan hanging chair in our little pavilion area since I really liked having an outdoor hanging chair at our last house.

Links: white umbrella / tall planters / black and white pillow / jute chevron rug / pink and orange rug / black wire coffee table / green lantern / rattan lantern / pink striped pillow / pink planter / checkerboard rug / striped umbrella / sun rug / jute pillow / white coffee table / yellow side table

Items like outdoor pillows can really cozy up a space, and I absolutely love having a fire table incorporated into an outdoor area! And if you’re looking for things like plates, cups, and tablecloths, check out my post, Everything You Need for Outdoor Dining.

They are great for atmosphere (even during warm weather) and we’ve used ours through the fall and even on Christmas Eve in the past for an outdoor hot chocolate night!

This is a pretty one and it’s not too big for smaller areas.

When it comes to the outdoors, don’t forget about lanterns and patio lights to set the mood. (I love that these patio lights have a remote!!)

Taking care of your pieces is also important to be able to use them year after year! Here’s a good post on how to protect your outdoor furniture all year long to keep it at its best! xo. Laura

Check out our Tips for Decorating an Outdoor Living Space or our podcast Episode #31: Outdoor Spaces!

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Faux Trees for Your Porch https://abeautifulmess.com/faux-trees-for-your-porch/ https://abeautifulmess.com/faux-trees-for-your-porch/#comments Tue, 22 Mar 2022 13:00:00 +0000 https://abeautifulmess.com/?p=84763 I love plants with a passion and will happily spend all my spare cash and free time on the weekends perusing our local nursery.

I also know that some of you are triggered at the idea of fake plants. In fact, I see your fingers heating up getting ready to leave me a mean comment.

I’ve written about my love/hate relationship with fake plants before. SURE, real plants are better, but hear me out!

After killing some expensive potted trees on my porch last summer, I replaced them with fake outdoor plants. They look exactly like the real trees I replaced, they are fade-proof, and they have looked great on my porch all winter.

This photo was taken in February in Tennessee when no potted porch plant has any business being alive outdoors.

A little backstory …

When we moved to this house with a large covered porch, I had a gardening expert over to my house to give me advice for how to landscape, what plants to replace, and things like that.

I told him that I wanted our covered porch to feel full of plants and lush with a lot of potted trees. I asked him what type of trees or large plants I should buy. He told me that since the porch was covered and the plants wouldn’t benefit from rainfall (our state is very rainy) that he did not recommend trees under the porch.

He told me that even if I was committed to watering them that it might not be enough and they would likely die.

I didn’t listen and I bought a bunch of real trees for my covered porch. You can see photos of them here. I watered them religiously, but it only took a few months for me to start noticing signs of dryness and then I spent the rest of the summer watching all my trees die a slow death.

VERY sad. After that, I believed him, so I decided to replace my trees with faux trees and plants.

The price was similar to the price of buying real plants, but now that winter is almost over and they all still look perfect I am very happy I made that choice instead of digging in further.

When is a faux plant better than a real plant?

-Choose faux trees for outdoor spaces that don’t get rain (like a covered porch).

-Faux plants are a good choice for spots where you have a very specific plant in mind, but that plant was not happy there. I use this rule inside and outside.

-If the price of the faux plant and the real plant are similar and you aren’t sure you can keep the real plant alive, choose the faux plant to be safe.

-Faux plants are a good choice for people who travel a lot, vacation, and own rental properties.

-If you live in a climate that can’t support the plants you want.

How to make faux plants look more real

I have two important tips that make my faux plants look real. The number one MOST important tip is to mix real and faux plants. When you have some real plants and some faux plants in your space people will assume they are all real!

I do this indoors and outdoors! For example, all the trees on my patio are fake now, but I will still have some fresh herbs and real snake plants and other succulents out there that do great all season.

Use real dirt on your faux plants. I know this may seem a little strange, but planting your faux plants in real dirt makes them look more real and it also helps to hold them upright (outdoor plants that are unsupported can get blown over by the wind a lot).

You can also cover the top of the soil in small rocks if you like the look of that more.

Here are some of my favorite potted trees.

Links: Cedar Pine Tree / Cypress Tree with Lights / Double Ball Boxwood Tree / Fiddle Leaf Tree / Tall Boxwood Tree / Olive Tree with Planter / Cedar Shrub / Mini Cedar Pine Tree / Traveler’s Palm Tree

I hope this post has been helpful! I didn’t even know you could find so many outdoor trees that look this real and don’t fade.

They were so worth it to me because I know we will enjoy them for years to come and I can’t kill them. So after reading that, what are your thoughts on faux plants outdoors?

Other sources: Hanging Chair / Pom Blanket / Checkered Pillow / Striped Rug

P.S. If you’re getting your patio ready for warmer weather, check out our outdoor furniture shopping guide!

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