Style Archives - A Beautiful Mess https://abeautifulmess.com/category/style/ Crafts, Home DĂ©cor, Recipes Mon, 08 Jan 2024 16:30:04 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.4.3 https://abeautifulmess.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/cropped-ABM-Favicon-60x60.jpg Style Archives - A Beautiful Mess https://abeautifulmess.com/category/style/ 32 32 How to Tie-Dye – Beginner’s Guide https://abeautifulmess.com/how-to-tie-dye-beginners-guide/ https://abeautifulmess.com/how-to-tie-dye-beginners-guide/#comments Thu, 27 Jul 2023 13:00:00 +0000 https://abeautifulmess.com/?p=115613 Tie-dye is one of those fun and easy craft projects anyone can have success with! In fact, the first time I tie dyed was at a slumber party in fifth grade (I was 12 years old). And I still love tie-dye today.

This class craft is easy to do, but you’ll have more success with some basic information and a step-by-step beginner’s guide.

Love tie dye? Then you may also want to try: Shibori Tie-Dye, Resist Dye Basics, and How to Double Dip Dye (similar to ombre).

Tie-Dye Basics

The history of tie-dye dates back thousands of years, with evidence of similar techniques found in various cultures around the world.

However, the modern form of tie-dye that is most commonly associated with colorful patterns and designs on clothing emerged in the 1960s during the counterculture movement in the United States. I always think of the Grateful Dead when I think of tie-dye. 🙂

The basic idea is you cover areas of fabric by tying them off with rubber bands. Then, you dye the rest of the fabric, possibly in multiple colors. The tied-off areas do not get color, since they are not exposed to the dye.

There are many different patterns and variations of this basic technique. But the number one piece of advice I would give to anyone who is just trying out tie-dye for the first time is this: It will be imperfect.

Tie-dye, like many projects, is about experimenting and enjoying the process while also at times being surprised by the results. If you want a perfectly curated look, tie-dye is likely not the best option, as it’s meant to look messy, colorful, and fun!

Looking for more nostalgic crafts? Check out How to Make Friendship Bracelets!

Classic Tie-Dye – How to

One you have gathered your supplies (more on this below), tie-dye has three basic steps: prepare your fabric, dye it, and then once done, wash it before use.

Supplies

  • Dye – I love Tulip one-step dyes and the tie-dye kit. No soda ash or presoaking required. This is truly the best option for beginner’s IMO.
  • Rubber bands
  • Gloves & drop cloth to protect areas
  • Garments or items to dye – white cotton is best but other fabrics can work as well. You can tie dye so many different garments like sweatshirts, T-shirts, socks, bandanas, overalls, and more!
  • Laundry detergent

Preparation

Begin by washing the garments you plan to dye. If they are things you already own and have washed before, you can skip this step. But anything new or if you are unsure (like an item you thrifted), go ahead and wash it as you normally would and fully dry before dyeing.

Dye

Scrunch up your item as desired and then add rubber bands. See below for patterns you can try.

Then, mix your dyes according to the package instructions (the kit I used had me simply add water to the bottles and shake).

Cover your area with a drop cloth to protect it from any dye spills. I also recommend wearing disposable gloves as you work to protect your hands.

Add dye to the prepared fabric and allow to soak for the recommended time. The dye I used suggested 4-6 hours.

Wash

Before throwing your tie-dye garments in the washing machine, give them a good rinse in the bathtub or kitchen sink. I recommend wearing gloves again for this step. Remove the rubber bands and rinse until the water runs clean. Then, wash them in the washing machine, or as you normally would.

I know it may not seem necessary, but I do think it’s best to wash newly dyed items separate from other clothing the first time. Even if you rinse it well, the dye could ruin other clothing you are not wanting to dye.

Tie-Dye Patterns

While I love to randomly bunch up my project and be surprised by the final results, it’s also really fun to create classic tie-dye patterns. Here are five basic patterns to try.

Bullseye

Pinch a section of fabric of the garment. Pull the fabric up to this point, creating a fabric cone. Wrap rubber bands around the cone of fabric.

You can add as many or as few rubber bands as you want. When you go to dye, add a different color to each section (between the rubber bands).

Folded

Fold the garment into a square or triangle, folding and condensing it down as much as you like. When you go to dye add color to the edges of the folds only.

This tie-dye pattern can use rubber bands or not—it’s up to you. If you want to add small pieces of cardboard in the shape of the fold (a square or a triangle) on each side, you can wrap the rubber bands around these before dyeing.

Stripes

Lay the garment flat. Starting from the bottom or one side, fold the shirt in a series of small accordion-style folds. Wrap the folded shirt with rubber bands. Depending if you start from, a side or top/bottom will create vertical, horizontal or diagonal lines.

When you go to dye, add color to each section (between rubber bands).

Sunbursts

Pinch a series of small sections and pull them up to create small, small cone shapes. Secure each with a couple of rubber bands. These kind of resemble cow utters. When you go to dye, add a color to the small cone areas and a different color for the rest.

Swirl

Pinch a small section in the center of your garment. Twist the fabric around this point. Keep twisting, and the garment will become a disc. It think it resembles a cinnamon roll.

Secure the shirt with three or four rubber bands, crisscrossing them over the center of the disc. The tighter you bind the shirt, the more white there will be. When you dye, add color to each different section on the disc created by the rubber bands.

Bleach Tie-Dye

Using bleach to tie-dye is essentially the same technique but instead of adding color to a garment, we are looking to take color away (by bleaching it off).

All you need is: a colored garment (again, cotton is best but other fabrics can work as well), rubber bands, bleach, gloves, and a drop cloth to protect your hands and surfaces.

Fold or scrunch your garment and add rubber bands as desired. Then, carefully add the bleach to the entire garment or only sections—up to you.

You will be able to see the garment change color so you’ll likely know when it’s ready. I found that 1-2 hours is likely enough, but longer can create an even more intense bleached look.

Just like classic tie-dye, rinse the garment (with gloves on) and then wash separately the first time.

Ice Tie-Dye

Using ice cubes to tie-dye has become really popular in the last few years. The process is slightly different, and in my experience creates a softer, more subtle tie-dye effect than classic tie-dye.

You will still need a white or light colored garment (cotton is best), powder tie-dye (like the kit I used throughout this post), rubber bands, gloves, and ice cubes. I also think a cooling rack is useful.

Fold or scrunch your garment and add rubber bands. Place in your kitchen sink on top of the cooling rack.

Then, cover the garment in ice cubes and sprinkled with colors of powdered dye. As the ice melts, it will dissolve the dye powders and saturates the fabric. Allow the ice cubes to fully melt.

Just like classic tie-dye, rinse with gloves on until the water runs clear. Then, wash separately the first time, so it doesn’t stain other clothing.

Frequently Asked Questions

Should fabric be wet when you tie-dye?

No. While it may depend on what type of dye you are using, but most beginner dye kits will encourage you to dye dry fabrics.

How long should tie-dye soak before rinsing?

For classic tie-dye, 4-6 hours is a good minimum, but you can allow the dye to set for longer for more intense colors.

Is it better to tie-dye wet or dry?

It’s best to wash a new garment first, and allow to fully dry before starting the tie-dye process. You can skip this step if you have already owned the garment and it’s been washed before.

More Craft Projects

If you have more questions about tie-dye projects, let us know in the comments and we can add to the FAQ section of this post over time. Happy crafting!

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How to Tie Dye – Beginner’s Guide

classic tie dye technique
Keyword tie dye
Prep Time 5 minutes
Cook Time 15 minutes
Soak Time 6 hours
Total Time 6 hours 20 minutes

Ingredients

  • white cotton garments
  • tie-dye kit
  • rubber bands
  • gloves
  • drop cloth

Instructions

  • Begin by washing the garments you plan to dye.
  • Scrunch up your item as desired and then add rubber bands.
  • Then, mix your dyes according to the package instructions.
  • Cover your area with a drop cloth to protect it from any dye spills.
  • Wear disposable gloves as you work to protect your hands.
  • Add dye to the prepared fabric and allow to soak for the recommended time. The dye I used suggested 4-6 hours.
  • Before throwing your tie-dye garments in the washing machine, give them a good rinse in the bathtub or kitchen sink. I recommend wearing gloves again for this step. 
  • Remove the rubber bands and rinse until the water runs clean.
  • Then, wash them in the washing machine, or as you normally would.

Notes

  • If the garments you are dyeing are things you already own and have washed before, you can skip washing them.
  • See post for examples of different tie-dye patterns you can try. 
  • I know it may not seem necessary, but I do think it’s best to wash newly dyed items separate from other clothing the first time. Even if you rinse it well, the dye could ruin other clothing you are not wanting to dye.
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Episode 176: Finding Your Personal Style (Deep Dive) https://abeautifulmess.com/episode-176-finding-your-personal-style-deep-dive/ https://abeautifulmess.com/episode-176-finding-your-personal-style-deep-dive/#comments Mon, 27 Mar 2023 13:00:00 +0000 https://abeautifulmess.com/?p=107822 This week, we’re sharing a deep dive on our experience cleaning out and curating our own closets. We’re also sharing how we got color consults what our best colors are. 

Plus, we’re sharing tips for finding a style that felt right for us.


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Show Notes:

Read The Curated Closet and check out The Curated Closet Workbook.

Check out Emma’s blog post: 3 Things I Learned from The Curated Closet

We got our color consults from createdcolorful.com

Emma’s Color: Light Summer (pale colors like lavender and cool tones)

Elsie’s Color: Deep Autumn (browns and plum)

Tips for Finding Your Style and Feeling Good:

Elsie:

-Look at the clothing, makeup, and styles you still love from OLD photos and you will find things that feel classic to you.

– If you have clothing that you wear by default that makes you feel bad about yourself, let it go.

-Create a mood board for your wardrobe.

Emma:

-Have high-quality basics that fit you well and that you will wear a lot.

-Your clothes should reflect how gorgeous you are.

-If you love something, buy it in a few colors.

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Episode 176 Transcript:

Emma: You’re listening to The beautiful Mess Podcast, your cozy comfort listen. This week we’re sharing a deep dive into our experience, of cleaning out and curating our own closets. We’re sharing how we got color consults and learn when our best colors are, and we’re sharing tips for how we found a style that felt right for us.

Elsie: Yeah, a style deep dive. I am excited to do this episode, the color consult part is new, and then the curated closet part. I feel like we’ve been talking about that since like episode one, but it really is such a big part of what I think helped me create a closet that like where you really wear your stuff. Like the most important thing, you really wear it, right? 

Emma: Same. That is always the thing that I tell friends if they’re like, I’m trying to work on my personal style. Not that anyone’s asking me for fashion advice, but I am always like, oh, I read this book, it has a workbook. You can do one or the other or both, you don’t have to have read the book to enjoy the workbook. People always ask that too, and Curated Closet is awesome. 

Elsie: Yeah. Well, the thing I’ve learned from my mom era is that even when you are like, I don’t do fashion blogging, I don’t consider myself a fashion person. I don’t really like shopping that much. I don’t really care. You still wear clothes every day and you still need to feel good about yourself every day and it still matters. I kind of don’t see a time in life when it doesn’t matter at all. Because it affects, at least for me, how I feel, how comfortable I feel, and I don’t know how I present myself in public and just everything like that. So I think that it’s a great topic for kind of anyone and I had so much fun. The consult was definitely like a new experience. First, let’s talk about the Curated Closet a little bit. So for anyone who doesn’t know or has never heard of this. We love this book called The Curated Closet, and we specifically recommend the Curated Closet workbook, which we will link in our show notes. It’s just like a great resource if maybe you’ve graduated college or maybe you’ve become a mom, or something’s happened to where your life has really changed and you feel like you’re in between, you don’t know what to do, so you’re wearing the same thing over and over, what’s in your closet doesn’t really match the way you’re living anymore. This is the person that this book is really made for, and it happens to all of us multiple times in our life. For me, I’ve always felt like because of our history of blogging and being in pictures a lot and stuff, I’ve always felt very comfortable getting dressed up for photos. I know how I wanna look in photos. I know how to do my makeup, photos, hair, and everything. Being in photos is easy for me. But finding like an everyday style that isn’t just pajamas has always been very challenging for me and I am very all or nothing. So for me, I usually focus on everyday clothes. Yeah, like mom uniform type of thing. And then it also helped me learn what I’m wearing the biggest percentage. She has all these exercises in the book like, what do you wear most days? What do you wear once in a while? And I realized that when I first started, the majority of my closet was sort of like blog clothes. Where we don’t really go to blog events as much as we used to, but things you would wear in public at a blog thing, just kind of crazy clothes. And then the stuff we would wear in pictures, which is kind of crazy clothes, and then stuff that we wear in our everyday life, which is slightly less crazy clothes. And yeah, for me I realized that I need to spend more on things that I’m gonna wear a hundred times, like the things I wear all the time and I need to spend less on so many outfits that I have worn like twice. 

Emma: Yeah. And I actually wrote a blog post a while ago and we’ll link it in the show notes, but it’s called three things I learned from The Curated Closet. And for me, that blog post is kind of like a quick overview synopsis of my biggest takeaways from it. So if you’re interested in that, check it out. Before I read the book and then did the workbook, she has like a lot of challenges in there that you can do. Before I did that, I felt like I had a lot of my closet that I was air quotes, saving like I never wore it, but I liked all of it. I just didn’t ever wear it cuz it didn’t actually fit my real life, it kind of fit this like fantasy life or this past life, cuz we used to like work out of an office together and we had a little team and then eventually we started working from home. And I’ve worked from home now for a long time, like eight or nine years and the type of work I do is a mix of computer work. So I’m sitting at a computer like a lot of people, but also a lot of cooking in the kitchen and getting down low to take photos and crafting and getting down low to take photos. And then also since I became a mom again, a lot of getting down low pick up my son or different things like that, so a lot of, I don’t wanna wear yoga pants every single day. That doesn’t feel like my style or comfortable to me. I mean, it’s comfortable, but I mean, it doesn’t make me feel put together. For some people it might, for me, it doesn’t, but I realized I had a lot of clothes that just didn’t, I needed something that was more, I don’t know if fitness or athletic is the right word, but things that I could move in a lot more than I really had realized, so that kind of thing. And then I also grew up, I feel like in high school, you’ll probably remember we had a really tight budget, obviously like everyone does in high school because you like work at the Dollar Tree, but I had a lot of clothes that were like things I kind of cobbled together from the thrift store. So they were mostly pretty wild, and that was fun, but I don’t feel like I ever learned how to shop for like really good basics that fit me well. And that’s like probably the number one thing that I learned in the curated closet I was wearing a lot of clothes that the fit wasn’t right, I needed to get them tailored. Or I need to spend more and get something that fits me better because maybe I bought something off of a clearance rack and it didn’t quite fit me, but the price was right. And then I ended up not wearing it a lot cause it didn’t feel great in it. And so it’s like, okay, you either need to get this tailored or you need to donate it and go buy something that fits you well, so that kind of thing. And so ever since then, every single thing in my closet I wear and I love, and I feel like I have tons, I feel like I have no deficit of outfits, which feels so good, but I also feel like I can get ready in like five minutes if I need to. And I never felt that way before. I felt like I didn’t feel very put together, I felt like most of my closet was stuff I was saving, quote unquote, for another time and that time never came. And I also felt like it actually took me longer to get ready and I didn’t even feel as put together because I just didn’t know what went together. And so now I have set uniforms basically. And I also wear a lot of jumpsuits because that’s an easy one.

Elsie: Yeah, I definitely have another clean-out coming in my future but the thing that I’ve learned the most from the past, I’ve done it a couple of times, and then sometimes it’s like you do it and then a few years go by and you need to do it again, at least that’s how I am. One of my coping behaviors in the early pandemic was online shopping, so I think I’ve probably said that before, but it was, and I just like collected a lot of clothes that I still haven’t worn. So I feel like now, it’s my job to figure out what works from this unhealthy shopping habit that I had for a moment.

Emma: Hey, it happens to us all. I cannot tell you how many things I thought while I was breastfeeding. So, no shame man. No shame. 

Elsie: Yeah. To clarify, I’m not ashamed of it, but I feel really bad. Like I don’t wanna waste this stuff. So I wanna figure it out now. What will I really wear? And then also what can I pass on to a friend? Or I probably won’t do an online sale, I would definitely donate. We might do an estate sale when we move from this home. Anyways, yeah, I just kind of have to sort out all of that. But anyway, the thing I learned in the past from my cleanouts is that I kind of always go back to the same style. No matter what I think I want or no matter what I am attracted to that I see other people wearing or what’s in style or whatever, I always go back to the same type of look over and over again and I always have. So I feel like I know now and I definitely got this from doing all the mini workbook sections of The Curated Closet. I know now what my core style is and I just have to stay close to that and that for me is the best way to shop successfully. 

Emma: The only thing I was gonna say, we were talking about buying stuff randomly, during the pandemic and during breastfeeding, because you’re up at 4:00 AM and all that. Generally, though, I would say after doing the curated closet and the workbook and over the years, I actually shop a lot less than I used to, I just tend to spend a little more. I have like jeans that I’ve been wearing now for like seven, eight years because they’ve lasted me that long and they fit me, I mean I obviously don’t wear ’em while I was pregnant. There was certainly a time where they didn’t fit. But generally, I have a lot of things now that it’s like I’ve had this a long time and yeah, it was kind of pricey when I bought it, but now I’m seeing the benefits of buying things that were a little bit higher quality and fit me better. And I can say like, yeah, it’s been years now since I did the community closet and I actually shop a lot less, but I do tend to spend more. And so I think that I’m really happy with that change it makes me feel like I’m acquiring less stuff. I’m not cycling through things because I just thought it was a good price, but it wasn’t actually something that worked well for me. And I feel like the things that I’m bringing into my house and bringing into my life and spending my money on are staying with me much longer, and they’re getting a lot more use and that makes me really happy.

Elsie: Yeah, that’s the goal. That is the ultimate goal. I think buying things that you know you’re gonna wear for years is the best possible way to shop. So I definitely recommend The Curated Closet to anyone who hasn’t done it. And I think it’s just such a good process I can’t wait to do my next cleanout again. 

Emma: Yeah, moving is such a good time for that. So I’m excited for you, it’s so much fun. 

Elsie: I still also, I should mention, I still do the Marie Condo thing too, where you take everything out and put it in one big pile and try everything on, and then put it back in only after you’ve tried it on. I think that that’s a really good method. I think there’s just something to it, to getting it physically out of your closet that like it also kind of forces you. For people like me, it forces me to not get distracted and be like, I’ll finish this another day. Trying on clothes is kind of boring, and if you get them all outta your closet, then you kind of have to get them back in, something about it works really well. 

Emma: Yeah, I almost feel like it helps you get rid of things that you maybe needed to because it’s like you literally already took it out of your closet like it’s now sitting on your bed or sitting on the floor, and so now you have to physically put it back in. So it’s like you’re really making a decision to keep it. Whereas if you don’t actually take it outta your closet, you just walk around your closet and decide if you wanna keep things or not. It’s like there’s no real, it’s almost like more effort to get rid of something. So if you’re on the fence, if you’re like, I really haven’t worn this in a year but it’s cute, then it’s I’ll just leave it hanging. It’s already hanging here. Whereas if it’s like sitting on the floor or sitting on your bed, it’s like, oh, I haven’t worn this in a year and I can’t think of the next time I will wear it. Maybe I should give this to a friend or sell it or donate it, whatever it may be.

Elsie: Yes. Okay, so next up we did Color consults with Created Colorful is the name of the company. So I heard about Created Colorful One Day on, you know I like to do the Instagram Q&A’s once in a while and I did one where someone was like, what season are you? And I was like, I don’t know, but I think I’m either an autumn or a winter is what I would guess, but I’m not sure. How do you know? And someone DMed me and said that they did a consult with created colorful and that it changed their life and I booked one immediately. That’s the recommendation, right? Like it changed my life. I think she specifically said even my husband is getting his own now, which I was like, oh, that’s interesting. I don’t think I could get my husband to do this because of all the selfie selfies you’ll, you’ll hear about it in a minute. There’s a large number of selfies. I was like, I want something that’s gonna change my life. And so I went on their website and they say that they will help you look better in your everyday clothes. They pick colors that look good on you in your everyday life when you’re not wearing makeup. So I was like sold. So I signed up for it and I thought the experience was so great. So I’ll explain a little bit about how it works. So first, you fill out a questionnaire and then they ask you for a certain number of selfies. The selfies are supposed to be like, they have specifications. They have a little video that shows you how to take them, but you’re like facing a window. They end up telling me it’s not really good to have a white background. And you hold up different colors of fabric or you can wear different colors of fabric. So it’s pretty much just like your face, your hair pulled back, no makeup, and they just wanna look at you wearing different colors. So they give you all the colors and the first set I probably did like. 20 or maybe 20 to 30 pictures. And then on the second set, they ask you for more specific colors because they’re trying to like narrow down what works and what doesn’t work. And then I guess if you didn’t do a good job, then you have to do a third set. We both had to do third sets, right? 

Emma: Yep, sure did. 

Elsie: But yeah, I was like, oh, there’s no way I’m gonna have to do a third set and I did. So don’t feel bad if you do. So I did all of those selfies. There were so many I felt like I could see on my phone like a difference. Did you feel like you could kind of tell some of them were standing out as like really good and really bad? When you like look at the collage of all of them together on your phone. 

Emma: Yeah, and once again, my jumpsuits came in very handy because I literally would just like hold all 10 of my jumpsuits up to my face, and that was like most of my selfies. I had a few other sweaters and different things that I held up. I had a sneaking suspicion for a few years now that lavender is kind of my color, which is weird because I do love lavender, but I’ve never thought of purple as my favorite color or a color that I gravitate towards, and lavender’s lovely. But until it even came back with the squiggly eighties style, it really wasn’t even something that was on my radar, totally. But I’ve always noticed when I wear lavender nail polish, I really like it against my skin and then I have a kind of lavender jumpsuit and this kind of lavender sweater and I’ve always thought I’d just look really good in them, even though I’m like, again, lavender I’ve never thought of it as like my color. So anyway, I could kind of see like from all the selfies in the folder, I was like, yeah, that one kind of looks like the best, which was my sneaking suspicion. And I was like, what is this gonna mean for my color? So, yeah. 

Elsie: Yeah, I could too. And it’s really interesting when you look at your selfies altogether, like on your camera roll view, how much your skin tones change just by wearing different colors, which I didn’t really know was possible. I didn’t understand it at all before doing this exercise, so it was very interesting. So yeah, for my result, I was expecting to get fall or winter and there are three different versions of each one. There’s like light, medium, and dark I think for each one. So that’s even six different options. What were you expecting to get? 

Emma: Probably the exact opposite of what I got, which is funny.

Elsie: Ooh. What were you expecting? 

Emma: I was open to whatever, but I guess I was hoping for something kind of fall. I like fall colors because I like fall time, It’s my favorite season, as far as the vibes. I was kind of hoping, I guess, for that, but again, I had the sneaking suspicion that lavender was kind of my color, which is not a fall color, obviously. And low and behold, after I did my three rounds of selfies, my color is light summer. Which is the way that they described it, lavender is definitely like the color in there. And then the way they described it is it’s a lot of colors that are cool tones so not really warm tones ever. So even if you’re wearing brown, it’s like a cool tone brown and then nothing super harsh. So like instead of black, I would look better in charcoal. And then it’s also a lot of colors that start with the word pale. So like pale yellow, pale pink, pale purple, which is lavender. So, which is funny cuz I don’t really think of myself as a pastel person. Again, I don’t dislike them or anything, I feel like when I see clothes I gravitate toward bold colors. Probably a lot of people do because it’s like what stands out to your eye? But those aren’t really the things that look great with my skin. And although I wear makeup most days, I don’t really wear super full-coverage makeup. I wear kind of lighter everyday makeup is how I would describe it. So I do think gravitating more towards the colors that suit me and my natural colors makes more sense and is just gonna highlight my features, which you kind of hit on this. But that was one thing that really sold me because Elsie got into this and she was like, you should do it. And I was like, I don’t know, We’ll see. But I liked their website, or maybe it was on Instagram that I saw this, but they talked about how to find your right colors, I don’t think they used the word right. The colors for you are more about highlighting just like your natural assets, your eyes, your skin, your hair, even if you dye your hair, like it’s about highlighting you and showing off who you really are and what you really look like as opposed to hiding it or covering it up or dressing for this fantasy look, that isn’t actually how you look. It’s just how a model and a magazine look and you wanna look like her. 

Elsie: I definitely have that problem. When online shopping, I’ve always been very influenced by the models and how the models look, and I still even now that I know what my colors are, and still constantly am gravitating towards outfits that are shot on very dark-skinned black women because I just like how they look. I just like it, it just looks good. Yeah, but if it’s a pastel then it is gonna look bad on me and now I know that. Okay, so I was expecting to get fall or winter and I thought fall because I just knew like earth tones or I have a lot of earth tones in my closet. I would say my closet is mostly earth tones. So I felt like that does make sense because it’s what I’m comfortable wearing and feel good in. But in winter I have kind of pale skin and I feel a lot of the celebrity examples in the autumn have darker skin or are more like a JLo type of person. And I didn’t really relate to that, so I thought maybe it was winter also because I really like wearing black and I was convinced that black is one of my hottest colors, which was my biggest shock. Black is on my do not wear list, as in it’s not good and I’m so confused. I still kind of don’t believe it, even though I accept that it’s true.

Emma: Well because it’s cooler. Right? So it’s like you’re supposed to wear warmer things, so you should wear a dark, dark brown. 

Elsie: They were like wearing black but with a different color with it. I just love all black, but truthfully, my children look really good. One of our daughters wears all-black outfits all the time, and she looks really good in them, and I should have known that. I don’t have the same color zone as my kids. So anyways, so I got deep autumn, which I was shocked because the examples when you look up the celebrities, it’s like Eva Mendez, Julia Roberts, I just was like, I thought they were odder to me than I am. So I was very surprised. But overall, it makes sense because the majority of my closet does fit within that spectrum. And so I do think I was already sort of like knowing what looked bad and good. I already knew pastels look bad on me because I’m kind of the same as my mom and she told me that about herself and it’s true and it’s true for me too. Yeah, I kind of already knew that. And I’ve always had a thing with spring shopping my whole life where I just feel like nothing looks good on me in the spring and then in the fall time, I feel like everything looks good on me. And now I understand it’s not just because of sweaters versus tank tops, it’s because of the freaking colors, duh. So now I know that.

Emma: I also just loved that we got basically opposite and we’re sisters and I think in some ways we do look alike, but in other ways, I get it like our skin is very different. If I tried to wear Elsie’s Foundation, it would not look right. We have different skin tones.

Elsie: We’ve always known we have different skin types and like different undertones because Emma has more of a tendency to look red. And I have more of a tendency to look yellow, I think in pictures.

Emma: Yeah. You have like our mom’s skin and I have our dad’s skin. 

Elsie: Yeah, but other than that, I think like structurally we look the same, but we have completely different colors. So some people either think we look nothing alike or, people have actually like confused us before like people have come up to me and been like, “hi Emma.” So we do, I know we do look alike, but she has blue eyes, and I have brown eyes. She’s always had light hair except for that one time when you were wearing your Elsie costume for like three months. 

Emma: Yeah, and I was like, this looks terrible on me. 

Elsie: Anyway, I have had blonde hair before too, sort of, and it did look terrible, objectively bad. Okay, I had a couple of colors in my report that they encouraged me to wear that I wouldn’t have picked out before. Like I’ve been buying more things in this sort of plum color and I don’t know why I just kind of didn’t care about that color. But now that I look for it, I see it all the time and it’s an easy color to find and it works for me. And then I’ve been buying browner, that’s not really new or hard. So yeah, I feel like I’m definitely gonna be able to make my everyday clothes more flattering. I don’t wear makeup every day and I’m not going to. So this feels very helpful. And I would say life-changing. It was definitely worth it, I can’t remember how much it cost, but it was like a hundred-something. It was definitely worth it for me and I would definitely recommend it to a friend. 

Emma: Yeah, and it also is just every interaction with them, whether they were asking for more selfies or when they sent my results, they’re so sweet. I felt beautiful every time I open one of their emails cuz they’re just like really encouraging and so I definitely do think recommending it to a friend. You don’t have to worry that it’s gonna be this negative experience cuz I just can pretty much guarantee it won’t be, it’ll definitely leave them feeling beautiful. Which they are, even if they have different colors than they thought, which is what happened to me. And I also in my report, so the two things I really wanna share is one, they had like a bonus color for me, they were like, we noticed that this char truce, which it’s this like lime green jumpsuit I have, they’re like, that is not really in the light summer spectrum, but it looks really good on you. So just so you know, go for it with that one. And if you ever have a wild card thing, and I liked that they were like, Hey, you don’t have to fit into this box every single time. If you see something and it is exciting to you and you feel good in it, maybe it works. It’s not like everybody fits in a box all the time, so I really liked that. And then the email also had a lot of tips because you might be thinking, oh, are they telling me to like throw away everything in my closet that doesn’t fit the colors? That sounds expensive, and it’s like, yeah, that would be expensive potentially. That sounds terrible. But no, they actually had a lot of tips for what to do when you’re wearing a color that’s maybe not so great for your skin and eyes, but you love it and you want to wear it, or it’s a sweater that’s special to you. It’s maybe your mother gave it to you or it’s vintage from your grandma. You just wanna wear it, it’s important to you. The tips are things to consider wearing like a scarf on your neck or a headband or a hat or earrings that maybe are a more flattering color for you. So things around your face are gonna be a little bit more flattering. And then also, if you just love color but it doesn’t look great on you, consider wearing it on the bottom. So, skirts, pants, shoes, things like that, tights, you know, you could go boulder down there because it’s right by your face. There are a lot more tips than that, I’m just kind of highlighting a couple. But I just really liked that it didn’t feel like, here are your colors and you have to fit in this box now, and if you wear anything outside of it, it’s gonna look bad, like it really wasn’t like that at all. It actually felt very freeing. It felt more like I was given direction and I liked that. 

Elsie: Yeah, I’m glad you mentioned that because yeah, I did wanna say I know a certain part of our audience right now, they’re thinking I don’t wanna do this because I don’t wanna be told what I can’t wear and that is an important note, is that I still think that black is one of my oddest colors and I still like and it is on my do not wear list, but I like do not care. It’s fine. I think that I just realize that like that’s a color that I’m gonna wear when I’m wearing a lot of makeup and like it’s more of a dressing up, going out thing for me. And with my everyday clothes, my sweatpants, sweatsuit, whatever, like T-shirts.Yeah, t-shirts that’s a good one. Pajamas, like the stuff that you always wear with no makeup and you just wanna feel good, I probably wouldn’t pick it up again for those. It definitely doesn’t mean that you can’t wear those colors. And also I’m like gonna get past all nails ’cause it’s Easter and that’s fine, I don’t care. You don’t have to care about every little thing.

Emma: No, it’s more if you want, I don’t know. If you just know more about what might look good on you. So one thing I do from time to time is love thrifting. We’ve talked about thrifting many times on the show, and for me, thrifting is just kind of for fun. I do try to only buy things that I’m gonna wear or use. A lot of what I buy lately is like things for Oscar’s fairy garden, like little ceramics or necklaces that I’m gonna take apart for my jewelry obsession, my necklace-making hobby. But I do also like to buy sweaters and clothes and things. And now I just feel like I have even more direction. Cuz sometimes you see something and you’re like, oh, I think this would fit me, and I like the color, but I don’t know if it looks great on me. And I feel like now I’ve just been given like a little permission slip of you can leave that behind for like the deep fall girls, cuz that’s not you. Check-in on the blue lavender and you know all that. And if you want to wear something that’s not your color, go for it, it’s no big deal. Here are some tips. That’s kind of the vibe of this whole thing. But I like being creative inside of a box. I like being given permission to let go of something. So that’s how I view this and for me, it feels freeing and kind of fun. And I also just like, I don’t know, sending in the selfies and it’s almost like doing an online quiz in a way. It’s just fun. Who doesn’t like to do that now and again? 

Elsie: So have you done any shopping or any cleaning out since you got your results back? 

Emma: I haven’t done much cleaning out because I don’t feel like I have tons of stuff that I’m like, oh, I definitely gotta get rid of it. I have one jumpsuit that’s like basically kind of a burnt orange. So you know how big Bud, they’re smalls, but they’re slightly different sizes. So I was like, all right, this one already was a little bit bigger on me, so I was like, I either need to get it tailored and now that I realize it’s really not my color, I’m like, maybe I will see if someone who’s more of a fall.

Elsie: I’ll trade you. Actually, I might already have it. I’ll have to check my closet, but I will trade you cuz I already started making a pile for you and it has my hot pink jumpsuit in it. 

Emma: Yeah, we can trade cuz this is like a terracotta red, rusty red. 

Elsie: Yes, I love the hot pink jumpsuit. I love it. I love it. I love it. I love it. But when I put it on, I don’t love it now I know why, I understand, it makes sense. It doesn’t make sense how you can have something that you love that much and then you put it on your body and you’re like, but no. Yeah. I feel like this was like a missing piece for us that I’m so glad we have now. So, yeah, I’m making you a little pile, it’s not that big cuz I really didn’t have a lot of pastels in my closet, but I had a few and I will bring them with me when I come to visit next week. And yeah, we can do a little trade I love it. Let’s do it. Okay, and then for the future, I feel like my biggest change is that like I am going to buy like 100% of my everyday basic clothes, like my mom uniform-type stuff. I’m gonna buy all of my colors because I feel I should because of school drop-off type of situations. I don’t wear makeup or care at all, like at all. I care less than the least. So this is a good way for me to look my best considering those terms. 

Emma: Yeah, same. If I’m spending a good amount of money, so like, basically if it’s not thrifted then I’m probably gonna stick more with my color palettes always in the future. The one exception is, I am sure I will wear some kind of pumpkin or halloweeny thing in the fall from time to time and I don’t care. I love it and I don’t care if it doesn’t look great with my skin, don’t matter to me, it’s Halloween. 

Elsie: Yeah, I support that. I think that that’s good. If I was told I couldn’t wear pumpkin orange, someone would have hell to pay. You can’t take that away from me so you’re handling it pretty well. 

Emma: I’m gonna need a refund because I love pumpkin

Elsie: Yeah, now we’re moving on to a section where we’re gonna each do three tips about finding your style, feeling good, and Yeah, if we haven’t made this clear enough already, it’s coming from the perspective of anyone can do this and everyone should feel good in their clothes. It’s not like a fashion, fashion perspective because we don’t have that. But I do love fashion. I have an appreciation for it. I wouldn’t consider myself a fashion person, though. 

Emma: I think if it is like food, everybody eats and probably everybody has to cook some, even if you hate cooking you probably have to do something. So it’s sort of the like, well what do you cook every day? Like what’s your everyday cooking versus what if you went to a Michelin star restaurant, I’m sure that you could still appreciate that food and it doesn’t mean that you have to cook it in your own home because frankly, you don’t have the skills. I don’t and it’s okay to have all these different levels. I actually think that’s really fun and exciting and that’s how I view fashion. I love fashion. It is so cool. Anyway, different levels of fashion are awesome, that’s all I was trying to say. 

Elsie: So here are our tips. My first one is to look at the clothing, makeup, and styles that you still love from your old photos. Look at photos from yourself, like through the years, all your different ages and phases, and find the things that still feel classic to you because chances are those are things that really work well for you. And also I just think something from a picture of me 10 years ago that I would still wear now, that means something. Do you know what I mean? That means something about like me and something about the clothing and the style, it can’t just be like a trend. It’s like it’s impossible, it’s great. 

Emma: My first tip is to have high-quality basics that fit you well and that you will wear a lot. So no matter your budget, it doesn’t matter. If you’re like, my budget for jeans is $50 or $300, whatever means high quality to you, just something that’s gonna last. And to me, the most important thing is that it fits you well. And getting things tailored is actually a lot cheaper than I thought. I think if you had agreed to get your whole closet done, that would obviously be pretty pricey. But to get a few basics to just fit you perfectly usually really isn’t as much as you might think if you’ve never done it. So find someone in your area who does tailoring, it’s not something that only exists in New York City. I swear you can find someone and get it to fit your body. You’re gonna feel really good in it.

Elsie: it’s extremely worth it. One time I did a whole bag of stuff and it was like a hundred-something. It’s not unaffordable and there are so many pieces that they just need a little tweak for it to be something you would really wear. So when you’re doing your clean out, you can have the pile where it’s like straight to the alterations and then you can have the donate and the keep in all of that too. I think it’s definitely worth it for sure. Okay, my next tip is if you have clothing that you wear by default that makes you feel bad about yourself, let it go. Donate it, put it in a bag, and get it out of your house. I’ve had this many times in my life, it’s like getting into a habit of just like when you get dressed fast, you just wear the same three things or whatever. And it might not even be things you like, but if you notice that there’s something that when you’re wearing it, you don’t wanna run into people or when you’re wearing it, you don’t wanna be in photos, then that’s a thing that I would encourage replacing and permanently deleting from your wardrobe. Because if you don’t have to, why would you wanna have something that made you feel bad? 

Emma: Yep, and my next tip is actually kind of along those lines, and I don’t know if it’s a tip so much as a pep talk, but I just wanna say, you are gorgeous. Exactly the way you are, exactly the size you are, exactly the age you are. So your wardrobe, your clothes, and your makeup, if you wear makeup, should reflect how gorgeous you are. So you don’t need to shy away from clothes cuz you think, oh, if I was a different size or if I was taller, I would wear that. Or a lot that I hear now is friends will be like, I’m too old to wear X, Y, Z, which we’re like in our late thirties or early forties, you’re not,

Elsie: I know they don’t even know how old is yet. 

Emma: Yeah, you don’t even know. And I don’t know, I look back now at like early twenties Emma and I wish that she would’ve just like embraced herself more because I was so cute and I try to think about that. I’m like, Hey, sixties, Emma is gonna be saying that about you right now. So embrace it, you are cute, you are hot, and you are gorgeous. Wear stuff that makes you feel that way because it’s true. 

Elsie: Good pep talk, Emma. That was really nice. My next one is, so I have a little mood board for everything in my whole life including clothing. I think it really helps. If you have trouble wandering from your style, like that’s my problem is if I just see something that’s cute, or you see something that looks cute on someone else, I don’t know. I have a problem, just like getting attracted to my personal deterrent is fun, bright clothing and I will seriously wear it once or twice. Like I just don’t wear clothing like that over and over, over the way I do other things. So I have to keep myself focused away from it. And it’s not like I can’t ever wear it, but I’m trying to not, definitely trying not to spend a lot on clothing like that anymore. Anyway, so I have my little mood board and it’s just like pictures of outfits I like, like people from Pinterest, just a little collage and keep it on your phone and remind yourself when you’re not sure about a purchase or whatever. I think it’s a good way to be like, oh yeah, this is how I’m trying to dress, this is how I want to dress.

Emma: Yep, I love that. It’s like a cheat sheet. Okay. And my third tip is if you love something, buy it in a few colors that work for you. But if you love something, this is something that we stole from our grandma and I kind of used to think she was kind of dorky for doing this, and now I a hundred percent do it and I get it and she was right. 

Elsie: I never thought that, I always thought she was cool. Her closet I’m gonna describe them. One colored, kind of like a dress that Ms. Frizzle wears. One colored cotton shirt dress has a color and midline sleeves and it goes down below the knee and it has a matching belt. And she had that dress in like the whole rainbow. And then she had shoes, like pumps in the whole rainbow to match them. And I always thought it was the coolest thing about our grandma, it was her teacher uniform. Yeah, she was a teacher. And Emma is just like her.

Emma: But jumpsuits. That’s like the version. So yeah, if you love something, if you’re like, wow, this sweater fits me really well, or, oh, I always, you know, wear this pair of jeans, they fit me well. Well, if they have it in another wash maybe get that. Also, when something wears out, like a great pair of shoes and you can’t resell them, or a great pair of jeans, they’ve gotten too many holes, whatever, don’t feel like you have to change it up if you don’t want to. You can literally just replace it with the same thing again, no shame in that. So if you find something that’s working for you and you love it, embrace it. 

Elsie: That’s true. I think that that’s really good advice, Em. So many clothes do come in many different colors too, which is nice. 

Emma: Yeah, just slight variations and it’s not even so much. I do so much laundry having a toddler and I only have one kid. I don’t even know what people are doing with 2, 3, or 4 kids. 

Elsie: You don’t wanna know how much different it is with two kids. 

Emma: So sometimes it’s just having slightly different colors. You also could just buy the exact same color, just so you have a few, so you don’t feel like you have to do laundry every day because I get that too. Go for it, do what you need to do. 

Elsie: I love it. I hope this episode was helpful. We really, really feel passionate about this subject, fashion is for everyone. And if you read Curated Closet, if you do the workbook, if you do the Color consult, send us your experience and your results because we just wanna hear about it. It’s fun for us and we’re interested. So thank you so much for listening, and I guess I’m just going to pass the baton now to Nova for our famous segment, A Joke and a Fact with Nova. All right, I have Nova here, Nova this week. Do you have a joke for us or a fact?

Nova: A fact. 

Elsie: Okay. What’s the fact? 

Nova: Did you know that like in the sun, more than a million Earths could fit in it? 

Elsie: Really? Inside of the sun, more than a million? That sounds like a lot. Awesome fact. Thank you.

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Holiday Pajamas https://abeautifulmess.com/holiday-pajamas/ https://abeautifulmess.com/holiday-pajamas/#comments Tue, 22 Nov 2022 14:00:00 +0000 https://abeautifulmess.com/?p=101289 This time of year, I love to live in pajamas and loungewear. My favorite thing to do is spread out all our holiday activities like wrapping gifts, decorating, and making cookies into mini sessions so there’s a little magic in every day.

This post is partnered with Walmart. They are a great source for pajamas, slippers and so much more!

Trimming the Tree

I love collecting ornaments and holiday decor. Every year, I add a little more to our home. There’s nothing better than a cozy day at home decorating (while wearing slippers, of course).

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Hot Chocolate

Recently, I’ve been working on a hot chocolate bar for my children, and you know what? I’m really into it as well! I love all the cozy beverages this time of year, like hot chocolate, apple cider, mulled wine and spiced tea.

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The Stockings Were Hung

Decorating our new fireplace is a huge treat. I decided to go with a theme of houses (I have been collecting these since we were newlyweds). These striped pajamas are my absolute favorite.

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What kind of holiday traditions and memories do you create this year? No matter what you do, make sure you’re cozy!

P.S. Looking for more cozy things to wear around the house? Click here!

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Holiday Outfits – 3 Looks https://abeautifulmess.com/holiday-outfits-3-looks/ https://abeautifulmess.com/holiday-outfits-3-looks/#comments Mon, 14 Nov 2022 19:45:00 +0000 https://abeautifulmess.com/?p=100923 As we move into the holiday season, I wanted to share three looks I am loving lately based on (pretty common) outfit situations that come up for me. I also decided to give each of these looks a little holiday- themed name. Lol.

In this post I am working with Walmart, which is a great resource for winter fashion finds. While I did put together these outfits for myself, I also think Walmart has so many great options for gifting this year!

I’d love to hear in the comments which of these is your favorite look.

Home Alone-

This outfit is very much about hanging out at home and getting cozy. Now that it’s getting darker earlier in the day, it’s usually dark by the time I’m done working and have picked up my son from daycare.

So, I spend a lot of evenings after he goes to bed watching holiday movies, doing a little festive baking, or making small craft projects while watching TV. It’s time to get cozy in a sweatshirt and enjoy being home!

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The Holiday (Dress)-

While I don’t have tons of fancy holiday party plans, I do have a few get-togethers I’ll be hosting or going to this year. And, I LOVE this dress!

It’s cute and also super stretchy, so it’s shockingly comfortable. And while it’s not as warm and cozy as pajamas, it’s not far off so a total win for a cute dress I can wear to a holiday party.

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Baby It’s Cold Outside-

Growing up, I usually got one coat each new winter season (as I had outgrown mine from the previous year). So as an adult, I kind of love that I have a small, growing collecting of winter coats that vary in how heavy they are.

It’s nice to be able to match your coat to your outfit or feeling that day, as well as the weather. I am also obsessed with this fuzzy bag— such a fun find!

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I hope these looks inspire you to find something cozy, dressy, and warm to wear this season!

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Fall Clothing 2022 https://abeautifulmess.com/fall-clothing-2022/ https://abeautifulmess.com/fall-clothing-2022/#comments Fri, 23 Sep 2022 13:00:00 +0000 https://abeautifulmess.com/?p=97918 Shopping for a few new pieces for my closet is one of my favorite ways to get in the mood for fall!

Autumn fashion is my favorite for the whole year. I love to pick a few new pieces like a cute pair of boots and a new dress and coat.

In this post, we’ve pulled together a bunch of cozy pieces you can mix and match with stuff you already own. Cheers to apple cider season! 

Dresses

I picked up a couple new dresses this season. I am really into plaid, and I’m looking for dresses that go with a cute denim jacket

Plaid Dress / Mulberry Dress / Black Dress / Colorful Gingham Dress / Emerald Green Dress / Floral Dress / Green Dress / Red Gingham Dress / Green Floral Dress / Brown Plaid Dress

Outerwear

Coats are one of my favorite collections. I love to add one each year, like this wool-blend dad coat.

Sherpa Jacket / Dark Green Blazer / Wool-Blend Coat / Reversible Quilted Jacket / Green Denim Jacket / Leather Jacket / Pea Coat / Jean Jacket

Tops and Tees

I’m always on the lookout for a good band tee, and cozy sweaters that work well for layering.

Bat Sweater / Sanderson Sweatshirt / Black Mockneck / Apple Sweater / Johnny Cash Tee / Eyelet Top / Bat Sweater / Striped Top / Halloweentown Sweatshirt / Gingham Top

Jeans and Pants

I love the Perfect Vintage jeans from Madewell. They are my current favorites. I also like to mix colorful and patterned pants in with my KJP sweaters.

Perfect Vintage Jeans / Striped Pants / Blue Trousers / Cheeky Jeans / Straight Jeans / White Pants / Rosewood Pants / Plaid Pants

Shoes

I love this pair of black boots from Madewell this year. They fit like the older sister to my beloved Dr. Martens boots. Boots with tights are my favorite combination once the weather drops! 

Converse Sneakers / Lace-Up Boots / Colorful Sneakers / Mary Janes / Trainer Sneakers / Chelsea Boots / Knee-High Boots / Black Clogs

Bags

I just got this bag for fall and it’s the perfect little mom bag for me! I’m so excited to wear it with dresses and boots.

Mystical Belt Bag / Woven Bucket Bag / Overnight Bag / The Hip Pack / Canvas Tote / Floral Zip Pouch

And just for fun, here are a few of my favorite fall recipes and activities!

P.S. Love this post? Check out Emma’s Holiday Outfits – 3 Looks!

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How To Style A Simple Dutch Braid https://abeautifulmess.com/how-to-style-a-simple-dutch-braid/ https://abeautifulmess.com/how-to-style-a-simple-dutch-braid/#comments Mon, 15 Aug 2022 13:00:00 +0000 https://staging.abeautifulmess.com/how-to-style-a-simple-dutch-braid Growing up, we always called the Dutch braid an inside-out French braid. I didn’t know there was another name for it, so when someone asked me if I knew how to Dutch braid, my answer was a pretty quick “I don’t think so.”

Once I did a little research, I found out that they are one and the same. If you know how to French braid, this Dutch braid tutorial is easy peasy.

Basically, you are just reversing the direction of the braid. If you aren’t quite as experienced in the French braid department, that’s OK!

Lovely and Simple Dutch Braid Tutorial

I’ve broken down the Dutch braid steps for you, so you’ll be braiding (like a pro) in no time.

Easy Dutch Braid Steps

Step 1: Divide hair at the top of your head into three sections.

Step 2: You will begin braiding, but instead of crossing your strands OVER the middle piece, you will be crossing UNDER.

Step 3-4: After you have crossed under twice, take a section of hair from the side and add into one of your strands. You will cross this section of hair UNDER the middle strand.

Step 5-6: Repeat on the next side, making sure to be consistent and continue crossing under the middle strand every time.

Step 7: Continue braiding down.

Step 8: Once you reach the nape of your neck, keep braiding until you reach the bottom.

Step 9: (optional) Twist the bottom of the braid around itself into a bun and pin into place with bobby pins.

Lovely dutch braid DIY

Looking for more braid ideas?

Easy Dutch Braid TutorialOnce you master the steps, try starting on the side to create a lovely side braid. This technique can be used in a lot of different styles. Happy braiding! xo. Katie

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Best Skincare Products – With Clean Ingredients! https://abeautifulmess.com/elsies-go-to-skincare-products/ https://abeautifulmess.com/elsies-go-to-skincare-products/#comments Wed, 10 Aug 2022 13:00:00 +0000 https://abeautifulmess.com/?p=67470 I LOVE skincare. I could go on and on and ON about it. I love it so much! In today’s post, I am sharing the best (and my favorite) skincare products with clean ingredients.

These are items I use daily and religiously. I am dividing them up by morning and night routine. The night routine is, of course, much more important! I hope you enjoy a peek into my medicine cabinet.

Related: Emma’s Skincare Routine

When recently asked to describe my skin type, my reply was “old.” Haha. I was joking, of course! I know that I’m still young(ISH). But being 40 years old means taking great care of my skin morning, noon, and night.

If you’re reading this and you’re 22, trust me when I say—the earlier you start, the better. Just simply removing ALL your makeup every night and keeping your skin toned and hydrated can make a huge difference.

And you don’t need a bunch of expensive products. Toner and coconut oil could get you pretty far if you’re on a small budget and don’t know where to begin.

In my opinion, the most important element of a skincare routine is consistency.

Morning Routine:

Toner

Each morning I wake up, splash some water on my face (and towel dry), brush my teeth, and then immediately reach for my Thayer’s Toner. It’s one item in my routine that I never leave without. I prefer the unscented version.

You can swipe toner on your face using a cotton pad or your hands to press it into your face. During the winter, I tend to have more dry skin—I use toner often to keep my dry skin at bay.

Face Mist

Next, I spritz my face with a mist. I am currently using and loving the Sea Vitamin Boost by Osea. Mists make my skin feel fresh and it’s a part of my morning routine that actually helps me wake up. I wake up very early currently with two kids, so it’s not always pretty.

Moisturizer

When I’m not wearing makeup, I will put on some Summer Fridays Cloud Dew. It’s a great texture and a nice, natural scent. When I’m not wearing makeup (which is often), I still try to keep my skin highly moisturized.

Love a good toner? Check out 3 Easy Hydrating Toners You Can Make At Home!

Night Routine:

Cleanser

I use Leahlani Bless Balm as my oil cleanser pretty often. Oil cleansing is my favorite. All you have to do is rub the product into your skin (you can use pretty much any kind of face oil for this).

Then, run hot water onto a fresh washcloth and press it into your skin for 5-10 seconds. Repeat this a few times if you’re wearing a lot of makeup. It melts right off.

When I’m not oil cleansing, I use Honest Gentle Gel Cleanser. It’s great for all skin types.

Exfoliant

I am LOVING Moon Juice Acid Potion as my exfoliant. A few months back, I was experiencing a lot of breakouts around my mouth area. It was getting worse and worse.

After not having any facials or skin treatments for a year, my skin was generally just not at its best. I read a review for Acid Potion on another blog and ordered it right away. It has done wonders for me.

At first, I used it every day. Then when my skin cleared up, I started using it every other night or a few times a week. I will definitely keep it in my routine as it’s one of the first times a product has created an immediate result for my skin.

Night Cream

I absolutely love Osea’s Atmosphere Protection Cream. I was looking for a night cream with great ingredients, and this one smells and feels amazing.

I’m also obsessed with their Vagus Nerve Pillow Mist. It has so many incredible five-star reviews. I have found that sticking to a night routine has greatly improved my sleep quality!

One last thing that I forgot to include in a photo (but use every single night) is a lip sleeping mask. It’s super thick and the ultimate remedy for dry lips, which I often have. I love it and use it every single night right as I hop into bed.

Links: Thayer’s Toner / Sea Vitamin Boost / Acid Potion / Bless Balm / Cloud Dew / Atmosphere Protection Cream / Vagus Nerve Pillow Mist / Lip Sleeping Mask / Honest Gel Cleanser

I’d love to hear if there are any skincare products that you use and love, especially in the clean skincare category! xx- Elsie

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Make Your Own Daisy DIY Earrings https://abeautifulmess.com/make-your-own-daisy-diy-earrings/ https://abeautifulmess.com/make-your-own-daisy-diy-earrings/#comments Thu, 14 Jul 2022 13:00:00 +0000 https://abeautifulmess.com/?p=93941 Making your own earrings is a fun way to create some wearable art that you can totally customize to whatever suits your taste!

I love the daisy trend that is in right now, and I figured this summer was a great time to create my own daisy DIY earrings.

If you haven’t used resin epoxy before, you’ll be shocked at how easy the process is—and you’ll be making daisy earrings for yourself and your friends in no time.

Love a good jewelry DIY? Check out:

hand holding a glitter diy daisy earring
resin, glitter, paint, and jewelry supplies to make earrings

Supplies:

First, you’ll want to mix up a small amount of resin so you can create the yellow part of your flowers (although you can use whatever color you want for yours). Pour about 3 teaspoons of part A into your cup (just eyeball it) and then another 3 teaspoons of part B into your cup.

The kits suggest you wear gloves when pouring resin, but I’m pretty good at cleanly pouring small amounts so I didn’t.

Take your acrylic paint and add in small amounts and mix together until you get a color you like.

earring mold with just the yellow part poured

A small flexible cup allows you to pinch the top edge of the cup to create a spout for the resin to be poured out of, but be sure to wipe the drips off the cup with a paper towel after each pour.

Or, you can use a disposable pipette, which is great for getting resin into small molds without overflowing the mold.

I poured the yellow resin carefully into the small flowers and then into the lowest part of the big flower and let them set overnight (or check your resin to see how long it takes to dry).

Next, I repeated the process of pouring 3 teaspoons each of part A and B into a cup and added loose glitter and mixed it all together. Less glitter will make it more clear and more will give it more of an opaque look.

daisy earring mold with yellow and gold glitter epoxy

Allow your mold to fully dry before popping out your pieces.

Once your pieces are dry, connect the two shapes with a jump ring using small pliers to open and close the jump ring (the mold should have tiny pillar in each shape that creates a hole so you can connect them later).

Once the pieces are connected, attach your earring stud post to the back of the small flower with some super glue and allow the glue to fully set before wearing. Once it’s dry, it’s time to display your new earrings!

DIY daisy earrings made with glitter
women wearing DIY daisy earrings

Aren’t they so cute? And acrylic like this is pretty light, so they don’t feel like a heavy earring (even though they are a good size).

You can totally customize these to be whatever colors you like just by changing the paint or glitter color (and you can add glitter and paint together, too!)

Whether you are a DIY earrings fan or a daisy fan, these are sure to please and it’s super easy to make several pairs, so you can give them as gifts, too. xo. Laura

Love daisies? Check out:

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Make Your Own Daisy DIY Earrings

Create acrylic daisy earrings at home with this DIY earring project!
Prep Time 5 minutes
Cook Time 25 minutes
Dry Time 1 day
Total Time 1 day 30 minutes
Servings 1 pair of earrings
Cost $20 for the first pair and $4 each pair after

Equipment

  • 2 Wooden or plastic stick to mix epoxy can also use end of small paintbrush
  • 1 small needle nose pliers
  • 2 Disposable eye dropper or pipette  optional
  • 2 Small cup to mix ingredients  small disposable drinking cup is great
  • Daisy earring mold

Ingredients

Instructions

  • First you’ll want to mix up a small amount of resin so you can create the yellow part of your flowers (although you can use whatever color you want for yours). Pour about 3 teaspoons of part A into your cup (just eyeball it) and then another 3 teaspoons of part B into your cup. The kits suggest you wear gloves when pouring resin, but I’m pretty good at cleanly pouring small amounts so I didn’t.
  • Take your acrylic paint and add in small amounts and mix together until you get a color you like.
  • A small flexible cup allows you to pinch the top edge of the cup to create a spout for the resin to be poured out of (wipe the drips off the cup with a paper towel after each pour though) or you can use a disposable pipette which is great for getting resin into small molds without overflowing the mold.
    I poured the yellow resin carefully into the small flowers and then into the lowest part of the big flower and let them set overnight (or check your resin to see how long it takes to dry).
  • Next I repeated the process of pouring 3 teaspoons each of part A and B into a cup and added loose glitter and mixed it all together. Less glitter will make it more clear and more will give it more of an opaque look.
  • Allow your mold to fully dry before popping out your pieces.
  • Once your pieces are dry, connect the two shapes with a jump ring using small pliers to open and close the jump ring (the mold should have tiny pillar it each shape that creates a hole so you can connect them later).
  • Once the pieces are connected, attach your earring stud post to the back of the small flower with some super glue and allow the glue to fully set before wearing. Once it’s dry, it’s time to display your new earrings!
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How to Style a Top Knot https://abeautifulmess.com/how-to-style-a-top-knot-1/ https://abeautifulmess.com/how-to-style-a-top-knot-1/#comments Wed, 29 Jun 2022 15:46:14 +0000 https://abeautifulmess.com/?p=93907 A couple months ago, I shared a video on Instagram showing how I style this super quick and easy top knot. I think I called it a five-minute messy bun, as that would be another name for it.

But, this is truly the easiest way I know how to throw my medium/long (thin! postpartum regrowth) hair into a cute top knot style.

Related: 25+ Easy Hair Tutorials For Any Occasion

This is a great hairstyle for those warm summer months since it’s a stylish way to keep your hair up and off your neck and shoulders.

I love how top knots can be styled to look casual for a day out shopping or more polished for an office day.

Other easy hairstyles for warm weather:

You could absolutely customize this top knot hairstyle with accessories like a headband or oversized scrunchie.

1. Part your hair in the center from the crown of your head to the base of your hair on your neck.

2. Form a messy half ponytail on each side. I use clear elastic rubber bands for a no-show look, but if your hair is thicker, you may need thicker bands.

3. Each half ponytail will have a loop in the center. Pull one of the half ponies through the other loop of the other one.

4. Use bobbie pins to pin in place.

You can change up the look of your top knot by leaving bangs or strands of hair out before you begin.

Or you can pull a few small strands out after for a more tousled look. If you prefer the tousled look, here’s how to do a half up topknot. xo. Emma

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How to style a Top Knot

five minute or less hair style for medium to long hair
Keyword hair tutorial, top knot
Cook Time 5 minutes
Total Time 5 minutes

Ingredients

  • 2 elastic rubber bands
  • 2-5 bobbie pins

Instructions

  • Part your hair in the center from the crown of your head to the base of your hair on your neck.
  • Form a messy half ponytail on each side. I use clear elastic rubber bands for a no-show look, but if your hair is thicker, you may need thicker bands.
  • Each half pony tail will have a loop in the center. Pull one of the half ponies through the loop of the other one.
  • Use a bobbie pins to pin in place.

Notes

You can change up the look of your top knot by leaving bangs or strands of hair out before you begin. Or you can pull a few small strands out after for a more tousled look.
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3 Things I Learned from The Curated Closet https://abeautifulmess.com/3-things-i-learned-from-the-curated-closet/ https://abeautifulmess.com/3-things-i-learned-from-the-curated-closet/#comments Fri, 17 Jun 2022 13:00:00 +0000 https://abeautifulmess.com/?p=91181 On our podcast, I’ve mentioned The Curated Closet by Anuschka Rees a number of times. It’s a fantastic book, and there is also a workbook available.

I first worked through Anuschka’s methodology in late 2019, and I can honestly say it completely changed my style and the way I shop and think about clothes. I loved it! I’m still benefiting from many things I learned from this book years later.

Since I am such a fan girl, I thought I would share three things I learned from The Curated Closet. If you have been struggling with your personal style or are in a season of life where you need to change things up, I highly recommend the book and/or workbook.

I love Anuschka’s approach to talking about personal style. It’s not about finding what’s “right” for your body type or looking attractive, but rather about feeling good in whatever you choose to wear.

I also had been hesitant, as I sometimes feel intimidated by the world of fashion. My budget and taste mean I likely won’t be wearing all designer everything anytime soon.

I have always loved thrifting and putting things together in unique ways. And if I’m being honest, I don’t really like to follow rules unless I choose them. Ha.

Lesson 1: Fantasy Life vs. Real Life

One exercise you can choose to do is take a self-portrait of your outfit every day. The goal is to note the patterns in what you grab, the fit, colors, etc. Honestly, I learned a lot from this exercise.

I did this in December 2019 and the early part of January 2020. You can see some of the photos below (I honestly never planned to shared these, so the lighting/quality is pretty LOL).

From this exercise, I realized I had a huge part of my closet that was clothes for this fantasy life I envisioned.

But then, I mostly wore the same things over and over for my real life, which is working from home (mostly alone, and many days I don’t see anyone outside of my husband). My work is a mix of computer things and making (cooking, crafting, taking photos, cleaning up).

I realized I needed to be more honest with myself about what I really wanted out of my everyday clothes. Sure, I wanted things that were interesting and fun, but they HAD to be comfortable and things I could move easily in and potentially get grease or paint on.

If my clothes didn’t fit these criteria, I just wouldn’t wear them and they’d sit in my closet waiting to be in my fantasy life. 🙂

I still think about this lesson when I buy clothes now. My current everyday life often involves these same things PLUS crawling around on the floor with my 1-year-old son.

This is why I like jumpsuits so much; I don’t have to worry about pulling my pants up or tucking my shirt back in after playing on the floor or picking up my son when I have a jumpsuit on. Plus, I think they are cute.

Lesson 2: Finding My Outfit Formula (AKA My Uniform)

I also learned about finding an outfit formula that works for me. As I mentioned, I don’t really like to follow rules. This is different. An outfit formula is shorthand; it makes getting ready in the morning super quick, and when I am shopping for something new, if it doesn’t fit my outfit formula, I think really hard on if I will actually wear it.

Some things don’t fit the formula, like a fancy dress for NYE or a friend’s wedding. My outfit formula slightly changes with the seasons, too, as I live in the Midwest and we have very different temperatures throughout the year.

Warm Weather Outfit Formulas:
Jeans + Plain T-Shirt + Sandals
Overalls + T-Shirt or Tank + Sandals
Jumpsuit + Sandals
Dress (midi or maxi) + Sandals

Cold Weather Outfit Formulas:
Jeans + Plain T-Shirt + Cardigan or Jacket + Flats
Jeans + Sweater + Flats
Overalls + Sweater + Flats
Jumpsuit + Cardigan or Jacket + Flats
Dress + Cardigan or Jacket + Flats

I do own clothing that doesn’t fit into these formulas, but not much. And if this sounds boring to you, I get it. Honestly, my clothes are somewhat boring. BUT it all fits and I wear everything I own. Plus, it’s so easy to get ready in the morning now, and feel put together.

And I have a lot of cute headbands, hats, scarves, and glasses. Not a crazy amount, but enough that these accessories spice it up for me when I’m feeling like I want something extra.

Lesson 3: How to Shop Better

The Curated Closet really encouraged me to think more about the fit of my clothes, as well as quality. Growing up and into my early to mid-20s I mostly shopped at thrift stores or inexpensive fast fashion, since that’s what fit my budget. (I still love thrifting!)

And while you can find things that fit well, and high quality vintage items from time to time, I realized that I was in the habit of shopping based solely on price and I didn’t give as much consideration to fit and quality as I could.

I also realized I would often make impulse buys based on price (it’s so cheap! why not?!), but this lead to a closet full of things that didn’t fit me well, colors I didn’t actually like wearing, and clothes I just didn’t need because they fit my fantasy life and not my real life outfit formula.

Since reading The Curated Closet, I shop a lot less, I’m way more picky, and I feel like everything in my closet is something I will wear and wear often or I have an occasion for it (like, I have a dress that I wear to most weddings I’m invited to … it’s my fancy dress).

I still thrift for fun, but I’m picky. I also will go to the expense of getting things altered to fit me if I really love something, which makes me feel better in the item when I wear it so I wear it more often.

Do I have the perfect closet? No. But it has completely transformed in the last few years for the better. xo. Emma

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